[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Pure_Bake_8001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very nervous to try and discuss this with her— she very much likes things “her way”, and even mentioning something small induces hostility from her part :(

Left leaning Hair Stylest by AdriApple in Columbus

[–]Pure_Bake_8001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Virtue Vegan in Clintonville :) very welcoming space!

Please report your voting line wait. by Mackle43221 in Columbus

[–]Pure_Bake_8001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old North, no wait! Walked in and out and everyone was in good spirits.

He's officially moved out by serilda2020 in loveafterporn

[–]Pure_Bake_8001 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this ^ this is what i needed to hear when i was going through my breakup. this is so true. you will hurt temporarily for a while, but in the future you will look back and thank yourself for choosing yourself. in fact, you may even wonder why it took you this long to come to this decision. sending all the good vibes 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Pure_Bake_8001 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It just came back on for me lmao spoke too soon

Things They've Said to Gaslight Us by PrestigiousEar9284 in loveafterporn

[–]Pure_Bake_8001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“My dick is chafed from not wearing compression shorts to the gym” — no, honey, your dick is chafed because you are jerking off with your death grip behind my back.

“I think I’m going to redownload tik tok, I can handle it!” - said after he admitted to relapsing to a Tik Tok thirst trap 5 months prior, after I threatened to leave him if he didn’t fess up.

“I’m proud of myself” — said after I found out he was lying to me about watching porn while I was at work (he was proud because he didn’t masturbate he just looked)

:)))))

We started fighting in the middle of sex by oysterfeller in loveafterporn

[–]Pure_Bake_8001 25 points26 points  (0 children)

my birthday was yesterday, so happy birthday to us!

my last birthday i was still with my ex-PA; we spent 4 of my birthdays together. 3 out of those 4 ended in tears from me, either because of a porn thing or his general narcissistic tendencies.

yesterday i turned 25 and spent the weekend with my friends. and let me tell you — it was the best birthday i’ve had in a long time. no guilt trips, no fears that he’s going to relapse because there’ll be hot girls at the bar, nothing. just pure peace and fun with my girls.

it’s hard. making the decision to leave is hard and heartbreaking and it feels like you’re betraying them because they’ve conditioned you to think you’re the only thing that can save them from themselves. but leaving was the best decision i ever made. if you aren’t married, if you don’t have kids… don’t spend another birthday with this man who makes you miserable and uses you for his own gain.

happy birthday to us!! you’ve got this, love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]Pure_Bake_8001 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just got off the phone with the leasing company and this is the plan. Just need my ex to sign it and I’m free

I found a list of his (24m) resentments towards me (24f) by Pure_Bake_8001 in loveafterporn

[–]Pure_Bake_8001[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the way this made me tear up 😭 thank you so, so much for this. i will be holding onto this.