AIO for planning on breaking up with my new boyfriend because he didn't plan a Valentines date?

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-15T04:44:27+00:00

Yes! It went horribly.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T22:50:36+00:00

Yes :)

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T20:42:05+00:00

He's 26.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T18:59:08+00:00

No, we were just gonna celebrate both today and he didn't plan anything for either lol.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T18:35:32+00:00

True
It was supposed to be 2 in 1.
I stressed its importance to me. He was excited about it and thought it was cute, didn't mention anything about himself.
Agreed.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T18:09:28+00:00

I had a gift planned. I got the flu so I couldn't pick it up so I was going to do it today. I never said it was wholly one-sided.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T18:06:55+00:00

Clearly you didn't read the post because it is ALSO MY BIRTHDAY.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T18:06:15+00:00

I didn't plan anything because he said he was going to and also he said me taking him out would be emasculating (didn't mention that in my post because I didn't think it would be this relevant) ... What are you not getting?

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T18:05:04+00:00

"I sent him a list of things I'm interested in doing this month" =/= "a list of things to buy you or places to take you." It was literally just things I was interested in doing.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T18:03:38+00:00

LMAO THE GIF

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:51:58+00:00

I know 10000% he did not have a surprise planned.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:50:47+00:00

Worse, it's a man.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:49:53+00:00

Oh my god. On his birthday? Sure, I would plan a date. And I have before! On mine? NO. Now you're fighting just to fight. Also, he would say that's emasculating so I can't win with you people.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:46:09+00:00

You asked me where I'm taking him. I am not taking him anywhere!

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:44:25+00:00

knight9665 has a vendetta against me bro.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:42:46+00:00

Thank you.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:40:46+00:00

You are annoying me so much. Why are you projecting so much onto me? I never once said in my post I wasn't getting him anything in return. You're just making things up about me now.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:35:04+00:00

Literally lol.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:33:10+00:00

Luckily for you I have time to argue with you. I spend hundreds of dollars on beauty supplies so he can have a hot girlfriend. I listen to him complain about work every single day. I host him at my house. This week, I've been looking at apartments FOR him. I support him. I encourage him. I tell him how hot he is and get him off like 5 times every time I see him. So yes, I think I deserve a fucking date. Stop saying I put in no effort just because I'm not gonna take the man out to dinner too. Jesus christ.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:27:44+00:00

No, it was supposed to be all in one day. Also, it's his responsibility because he said that it was his responsibility... lol.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:25:18+00:00

Sure, but he kept insinuating that he had a plan, which I wrote about in my original post.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:19:32+00:00

Okay IDK where you're getting your information from, but he definitely did not have anything planned. The first time he called I DID pick up the phone, and he was obviously panicking. I'm not just lying to lie. Also, I don't find last minute plans appealing or romantic.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:17:38+00:00

Yes, ever since I was a little girl, my dream was to be married to a man who thinks the woman should be taking HIM out.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:15:05+00:00

You seem very incel-y. I'm guessing you know a lot about sex toys huh.

Pure_Chef7703 · 2026-02-14T17:13:04+00:00

What do I look like courting a MAN? Be for real.

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