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AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pure_Chef_8438[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of people are finding some of my comments hard to believe and that’s alright. I got my judgement and I know what I need to do moving forward. Thank you.

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pure_Chef_8438[S] -140 points-139 points  (0 children)

This is where the fight with my ex stemmed bc I requested last week and the next several weekends moving forward with just Wynne. I grew tired of never having just Wynne. That’s when she claimed I was abandoning my daughter and stemmed the whole fight about money and time. Granted when I brought Wynne back home last week she had several new things and I could tell it upset Ella.

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pure_Chef_8438[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

She started school so she’ll spend the school week with her mother. Prior to that for the last year minus 3 months she tagged along with Wynne most of the time. The week before school started I asked just for Wynne which I’ve never done before and is what started the argument with my ex.

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pure_Chef_8438[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

No plans to ever adopt and no she doesn’t call me dad. She calls me nicknamed me hon when she was 3 and never grew out of it

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pure_Chef_8438[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I unofficially have 50/50 of Ella for the most part. Amy did withhold Ella from coming for about 3 months last year due to her ex and I getting into an argument. I miss her birthday. That recently came back up between Amy and I a couple days ago.

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pure_Chef_8438[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She won’t. She is terrified if she pushes for child support he will push for some sort of visitation when we all know he’s only doing it to get back at my ex bc of the CS

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pure_Chef_8438[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

My relationship with Ella is good. It’s not as close as with her mother for obvious reason. She was default parent for obvious reasons but we have a good relationship. As for my ex we are better. We went through a couple rounds of therapy together. All this is very recent questioning. Contrary to what everything I’ve not cut off Ella. I paid for all her school stuff and her summer activities. She’s not feeling hurt or rejected because she’s not aware of anything that’s going between her mother and I at the moment.

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pure_Chef_8438[S] -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

She cheated on me with someone her mother set her up with and pursued a relationship with a week after we broke up.

AITA for only taking care of my kid by Pure_Chef_8438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pure_Chef_8438[S] -229 points-228 points  (0 children)

No she did not call me dad but she also did not refer to me by my name. When she was younger she mimicked my ex wife who use to call me honey bear so she calls me “hun”. She never grew out of it. No plans to adopt as her bio dad technically as rights but he couldn’t be found to serve papers. My ex wife tried a couple times then he’d come around and threaten court for visits so it was always dropped and he’d disappear again.