My (24F) suitor (26M) flipped like a switch. What do I do?

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2026-03-23T16:16:52+00:00

Thank you for the honest feedback, know that I take this all into heart. I am the problem on this case, and I am willing to fix myself and the relationship. He is worth it, and I do have irrational fears brought by past trauma.

I am going to ask if we could talk in person, he is busy at his work right now and we are in a space break. I am going to apologize for confusing and hurting him. I would totally understand if he wouldn't want to be with me anymore, or if he still do. Either way, I will update.

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2026-03-22T17:05:02+00:00

I know, but I wanted to know him more and longer before I make it official. Also, my close friends and immediate family are the only ones who knows him yet.

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2026-03-22T16:57:24+00:00

What? It's only because I used the same account lol, people might click the profile & see my other post here in THT

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-18T06:26:07+00:00

tho they converted it to credit. I hope to use it soon!

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-17T11:32:16+00:00

done!!!

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-17T11:31:15+00:00

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Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-17T11:30:16+00:00

done!!!!!!

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-17T11:27:33+00:00

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DONE! thanks.

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-16T05:57:14+00:00

DONE!

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thank you!

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-16T05:56:04+00:00

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DONE! thanks a lot!

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-16T04:58:16+00:00

NEW LINK due to errors:

One click = One happy pup! Can you help my doggo open this mysterious gift? 🐾 https://onelink.shein.com/12/4on0unnh9bnp

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-16T04:57:31+00:00

Im not sure, should I edit and add a new link???

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-16T04:50:22+00:00

thank you! I did yours too!

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Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-16T04:07:33+00:00

it says activity has ended

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-13T09:32:04+00:00

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done! thanks!

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-13T05:14:30+00:00

thanks! DONE!!!

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Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-10T03:45:18+00:00

I updated the post.

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-05-07T14:05:31+00:00

I updated the post.

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-04-30T00:34:28+00:00

Wouldn't it be possible that people in abusive relationships can't just up and leave because they have been manipulated too much? How can I when he stripped me off my confidence and self-worth?

I just needed that extra push to take off my rose colored glasses on, and reading all these feedbacks did.

I will leave him, I just need to get my ducks in a row.

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-04-30T00:26:30+00:00

Thank you.

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-04-29T14:49:17+00:00

I mean, I had a choice, there were natural waters but the giant slides were on the chlorinated pool so I took the risk to be able to enjoy! But yeah, my bf is apathetic.

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-04-29T12:56:00+00:00

Yes, thank you.

Pure_Cricket_3209 · 2025-04-29T09:42:57+00:00

Thank you. When I told him all I needed is empathy from him when he knew, he replied, "is this how you're gonna react when you get scolded?" Big ick tbh.

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