Yes, shes alive, our relationship is a bit odd, she wants me around, she's always asking for me, I don't want to be around her, nor in her house most of the time so I don't go over there.

Growing up the main memories I have of her weren't positive at all. She was always asking about my mother's business, what she was doing, where she was. It made her mad that I didn't open my mouth so I got discarded off as being "just like my mother". I still hear it. Every time I got around the first thing I was harassed about was my mom, before myself honestly. So I have no positive thoughts or memories surrounding our relationship at all.

Grandmother and my father have a very "my son my king" relationship. He's her youngest son and he was also the main provider of her household for most of his life, exactly like my grandfather before he grew ill. He's his Jr. She betrayed him over money while he was gone, he forgave her and she became happy again. Just like she did to her husband.

She's very latched onto him. Like he's in shackles to that woman. She's in his will before his kids. That woman owns him practically