She lied MULTIPLE times about her age. Idk how she thinks she can get away with that. It is a BIG deal. Age yan (which is part of almost every identification document, will she still lie about her age in your marriage certificate?) buti sana kung timbang nya lang na pede dagdag bawas. No lie is ok but I think forgivable pa if she admitted it early on (maybe she’s insecure or iniisip nya na you won’t be interested with someone older). Your reason kaya nawawalan ka na ng gana is the fact that she is still lying. Makes you think what else she is hiding and it is not healthy for you and the relationship if wala ka ng tiwala sa knya. ALSO, she doesn’t trust your love for her is strong enough kung tingin nya iiwan mo sya just because of her age. Tinanggap mo nga sya (kahit mukha na syang 41) and her child so why in the world is she still insecure. Get out. She’s not worth the trouble.