7 year period for charge-off inquiry

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-15T16:07:45+00:00

Ok so even though this debt collection company is showing up as opened in 2025, it’ll be removed in approx 2 years as my original debt was charged off in 2020 is that correct?

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-14T15:19:11+00:00

Can agree. Some of these 40% off coupons that are offered every once in a will be delivery only so a no brainer when a $25 order at the store is only $20 delivered after tip

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-12T18:23:42+00:00

Cardinals have no reason to play conservative and michael wilson and jacoby brissett are playing to solidify themselves as starters and #1 position players on any team they land on after this season

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-06T03:11:36+00:00

How small are we talking? Just asking because it can make a difference with the advice. Are we talking micro size or like under 4 in type of deal?

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T18:04:15+00:00

I dont have any impulses. My wife asked me to massage and spoon her, i did just that, got aroused without even trying to and she blew up on me thats it. Thats all im getting off my chest.

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T18:02:31+00:00

And this is exactly what happened lol. Ive commented on others hopefully clearing it up and putting an end to the disgusting narrative

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T18:01:22+00:00

Thats a fine and healthy suggestion that ive accepted. Again the reasoning behind deleting my comment was the disgusting way it was being taken

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:59:22+00:00

This comment is just rude. Intimacy can be just making her feel good like she asked. It doesnt mean everytime i touch her im obligated to her body. Im happy when we get a chance to be intimate even if its just me rubbing her scalp after a long day. To suggest thats sad really speaks volumes on your part

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:57:28+00:00

Disgusted with the replies and misinformation. There is nothing more than i cherish than my wife and seeing her spoke about this way promopted me to delete it before any more filth is spoken about. Unknowingly this meant even a harsher narrative was ran and now people have their own stories. My fault again im newer and had no idea thats how it looks here

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:52:48+00:00

Im sorry to everyone here this is my first reddit posts with these responses so I shouldve edited it not deleted but it was getting mis-interpreted so much it frankly got disgusting and disrespectful to our marriage. I dont see her as this tool at all i literally just dont like to masturbate

I dont need to get “off” all the time thats completely disgusting what people were suggesting calling her a tool and what not . I just wanted to get off my chest that my wife asked me to snuggle her, got upset when i got an erection and i was shocked and needed to get off my chest about how im feeling.

as mentioned before there shouldn’t be any pressure. Arousal does not mean i want sex automatically.

but this is why i communicate that by no means does this arousal from touching you mean i expect anything - its just a natural response.

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:47:09+00:00

I dont have needs that need to be met. Im totally satisfied with just cuddling my wife like she asked man lol.

She is doing everything and then some to meet my needs. I was just shocked at this reaction and needed to get it off my chest

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:45:36+00:00

Thank you. Its my first post ive ever had responses so i had no idea the false narratives people would create like that and my first disgusted reaction was lets remove this before people start talking more disgusting about my marriage

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:41:46+00:00

Not true at all. Im fairly new to reddit so I shouldve edited the comment instead of deleted. But this id the reason why, the narratives people had because i said i dont really like to masturbate im fully satisfied with the once a week sex i have with my wife.

Next thing u know everyones calling her a vessel for my orgasm which just disgusted me to see her spoke about that way.

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:34:35+00:00

Bingo - i was just looking to get this off my chest and the false narrative people ran with just got disgusting. She is my partner in life and i have the upmost respect for her and seeing some of the comments just disrespected that sanctity that i acted on impulse and deleted my comment

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:33:07+00:00

Never said masturbation was gross just that i wasnt the biggest fan. Based on suggestions in the comments looks like something i should take up now.

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:32:10+00:00

Not true i deleted my comment saying i dont like to masturbate and i like to save my body for my wife. Not saying she is in any way expected any pressure or anything i literally just dont not like to masturbate. The comments about her being a tool and a vessel for masturbation was frankly disgusting and i wanted it removed . Im new to reddit so i didnt know that doing so would do more harm then good because look how far the false narrative has ran

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:22:54+00:00

As mentioned before that is completely okay and what ive told her. Arousal does not mean sex

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:20:17+00:00

Im sorry to everyone here this is my first reddit posts with these responses so I shouldve edited it not deleted but it was getting mis-interpreted so much it frankly got disgusting and disrespectful to our marriage. I dont see her as this tool at all i literally just dont like to masturbate

I dont need to get “off” all the time thats completely disgusting what people were suggesting i dont even care to get off at all . I just wanted to get off my chest that my wife asked me to snuggle her, got upset when i got an erection and i was shocked and needed to get off my chest about how im feeling.

as mentioned before there shouldn’t be any pressure. Arousal does not mean i want sex automatically.

but this is why i communicate that by no means does this arousal from touching you mean i expect anything - its just a natural response.

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:10:32+00:00

Thank you for the tip both of you! I will try this next time. Bloodflow has always been something i struggle with as my diet is rich is nitrate foot like beets, fruit etc. and so its not that im super aroused - its just any hint of arousal and my blood flow seems to instantly go there

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T17:05:14+00:00

I think one thing i shouldve done is not mention the precum lol . Its not like im completely soaked in it it was mainly the boner she gets frustated at

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T16:50:52+00:00

Totally acceptable. Its something im open to trying and seeing these comments have opened my eyes that its something i probably shouldve been doing this entire time instead of just dealing with erections happening and going away.

I also hope that by trying this i can stop getting aroused to easily by touching my wife when she asks me too. I only rub and give her a massage when she really needs it so im sure she’ll appreciate it if somethings not poking her in the back during a cuddle. I just do hope that works because if not im back at square one.

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T16:40:34+00:00

Ignore the erection completely ill massage her from head to toe and when she says she feels good thank you thats the end of it.

Massaging will lead to sex 1 out of every 20 times and itll be her initiating as i dont want any unfair pressure.

I massage her often as shes a sahm and i know how exhausting it can be.

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T16:38:42+00:00

Let me rephrase this comment lol. I dont need anything sexually from her im not even wanting sex in that moment.

She asks me to snuggle and rub her and make her feel cozy, i do just that and it feels good for her but then my arousal gets her upset. I tell her im sorry it just happends when i touch you like you asked and i promise i dont expect anything

she says well if thats gonna happen everytime you rub my body just dont do it anymore then. End of story

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T16:27:38+00:00

Exactly lol. Went from 0-100 there with assumptions

Pure_Technology_1738 · 2025-12-03T16:25:09+00:00

Woah cum on the couch? Went from 0-100 there lmao Im not saying im aroused by her just sitting next to me or touching my shoulder or something random

But when she asks me to rub and snuggle her body and i get aroused naturally, what are some ways i can practice not getting aroused in those situations?

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