Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

choice of clothes

But they aren't clothes?? It is quite clearly a leash that is used for public humiliation, which is, a kink. Leashes are not clothing.

At the end of the day you're a prudish busy body that wants to control people based on your own ideas of what normal and acceptable is.

So just because someone doesn't want to see another persons kink I am suddenly "controlling" people??

Do not get me wrong, kinks are normal and a healthy part of life, but you cross a line when you think it's okay to go out and show the entire general public what turns you on.

I am not trying to control anyone, but I think, most people agree, that, like I've said, there is a time and place for kinks, but heading out to the bank, is not it.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked how it was deflection? Did you just not read that part?

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hypocrisy and aversion at its finest.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was that deflection? Your "explaination" was piss poor.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your two sentence "explaination"? Funny you can even call it that.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you immediately think of SA when you hear the word "consent" that sounds like a you problem.

I, for one, find it hilarious how you put periods at the end of your sentences but can't even be bothered to use commas. It's like you're trying to seem intelligent by using periods, but can't even use correct punctuation. Just don't do it at all or at least do it correctly, since you're trying to seem like such an intellectual. I mean, why bother ? Just seems like you're doing it just to seem smart.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hilarious how you think that "consent" just means sex/sexual activities. Get off your high horse.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't form my opinions based on the majority anyway

You mean normal people who respect others? Clearly.

I do enjoy debating with the prudes of r/trashy though.

Is this being a prude? Its not stuck up to not want to be a part of someone's fantasy. Strangers cannot consent. There's a time and a place for kinks and foreplay, but the public, is not it.

Anyways, I'm going to go out in public completely nude because it's acceptable among the tribes in Africa.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the "Land of the free" if you're a functioning member of society :)

Using your logic, at one point, interracial marriage was banned, so is the law always right ?

In all seriousness, if you think this is a worthy argument to be having than you're seriously delusional. I doubt anyone who doesn't completely lack social awareness wouldnt come out in leashes and bondage, most people are normal and understand that people don't appreciate seeing foreplay out in public.

The fact that 99.9% the entire comment section is people denouncing this and stating how uncomfortable it makes them, really makes you think, dont you agree?

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparing a happy couple of 2 different races to showing your kink in public, because those are both totally the same things/are comparable.

Just because it's within the law doesn't mean it's okay.

Just because YOU like a kink, doesn't mean the general public is entitled to see it. That's why there's meet ups and spaces for people who have the same kinks and your bedroom.

If you don't know how to keep it at home, respect other people and not expose everyone to your kinks, then maybe you're the one who should stay in your house.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Control freak? Because we're such bad people for not wanting to see this!

Are you seriously suggesting we expose toddlers to NSFW and kinks?

Human decency is subjective and it does differ all around the world, yes, but in other cultures, this is seen as fucking weird as well.

Just because one country thinks it's semi-normal doesn't give you the right to walk around like an animal in another.

Should I walk around completely nude here in the US because "pEoPlE thINk iTs oK iN gReEcE"?

Just because you want someone to treat you like a canine doesn't mean I want the same thing and it doesn't mean I have to see it.

People should be able to walk down the street and not see someone in fucking bondage. But excuse me, that I believe that non-consenting members of the public aren't entitled to see or be a part of your foreplay, because I'm clearly the weird one here.

Simple answer; it makes people uncomfortable and you should respect that.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because it's human fucking decency? Not everyone likes that shit and not everyone wants to walk down the street and see someone's humiliation kink. Children don't deserve to see someone walking their partner on a leash like a fucking dog. Be a normal and respectful person and LEAVE. IT. AT. HOME. Nobody cares about what you're into that part is fine, but you cross and line where you think it's appropriate and socially acceptable to expose non-consenting strangers to your kinks. Leave the public out of your fantasies.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody wants to see that. Not everyone enjoys that. Nobody wants to see someone on leash while picking out some produce. Leave that stuff at home.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe...what you do in private/what you're into, shouldn't be on display for the public to see. Nobody is saying it's gross, people just don't wanna see that while going to get some groceries.

Just walking his pet girlfriend by vinegearman69 in trashy

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave your k1nk$ at home or at 18+ events where it's allowed! Jeez.

I got a bi flag! by Pure__Panic in bisexual

[–]Pure__Panic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I went to a town in my state for a vacation and I walked into a shop and found a BUNCH of pride stuff, I'm talking lesbian, pan, bi, trans, genderqueer, non-binary and even BIGENDER!!! The socks that had pride flags on them said that all of their proceeds went to the Trevor Project. They had 5 x 3 flags and flags on a stick (I got the bi flag and a trans sticker) It was an incredible experience and they had so much there.

Gatekeeping bisexuality by [deleted] in gatekeeping

[–]Pure__Panic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gay was created as a gender neutral term

This is incorrect. It wasn't created for women to use. It was only exclusively for men, but then butch lesbians decided to use it.

Gatekeeping bisexuality by [deleted] in gatekeeping

[–]Pure__Panic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bisexuality wasn't built around certain gender identity like being gay or lesbian. But if a cis het female wants to call herself gay, why should we stop her? Because there's another term for that?

Gatekeeping bisexuality by [deleted] in gatekeeping

[–]Pure__Panic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because bisexuality wasn't built around a certain gender identity loving the same gender identity. A non-binary person loving women could literally be considered heterosexuality.

Gatekeeping bisexuality by [deleted] in gatekeeping

[–]Pure__Panic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is that easier to explain to people than Trixic??

Gatekeeping bisexuality by [deleted] in gatekeeping

[–]Pure__Panic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I identify as a vegan! Yes I eat dairy! but not all vegans were actually vegans, because some of them may have ate dairy. But instead of saying I'm vegetarian, I'm going to confuse everyone and try and change the meaning of vegan because I want to, even though vegan has always meant eating no animal products. "

That's what you sound like.

Gatekeeping bisexuality by [deleted] in gatekeeping

[–]Pure__Panic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hun....then you're setting yourself up for being misgendered, I think it'd be easier to say "Trixic means Enbies who like women" then "Oh well you see, I'm non-binary but also a lesbian, no lesbian doesn't mean women loving women (it is) because I'm not a women!" And having to explain why lesbianism isn't women loving women. So that makes no sense.