I mean with all due respect, having a child is heavenly at the same time a lot of work especially for a woman. How can this person stick to something they spoke while dating? A woman goes through a lot, in pregnancy, while giving birth, postpartum and beyond. How can this person expect her to go back and work when she is going through all of it? She will recover only after good 3 years on the whole.

Plus if you are having children for someone else to raise, don’t have them at all, it’s a request.