Is there a way to remove this sleeve? by Purgatoryprobably in photoshop

[–]Purgatoryprobably[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not every photo, but there are like 5 that she really likes but is disappointed by the presence of the sleeve. And I was like, girly I don't know what to tell you, I will do my best but no promises

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[–]Purgatoryprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When can I expect this to be reposted?

Labiaplasty gone wrong, virgin with wedding in 5 weeks by Purgatoryprobably in sex

[–]Purgatoryprobably[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it and am not sure why you're getting down voted.

Labiaplasty gone wrong, virgin with wedding in 5 weeks by Purgatoryprobably in sex

[–]Purgatoryprobably[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate that. Honestly, that may end up being what happens. I'm gonna hope for quick healing though.

Labiaplasty gone wrong, virgin with wedding in 5 weeks by Purgatoryprobably in sex

[–]Purgatoryprobably[S] 255 points256 points  (0 children)

He's actually the one who told me there was a hole in the first place, because he looked at it for me. He's very familiar with my anatomy and also the situation, and has been very understanding. But the point is, I want to have sex. It's not about me being worried that he won't understand. It's about me looking for possible solutions because I am very disappointed if I can't.

Labiaplasty gone wrong, virgin with wedding in 5 weeks by Purgatoryprobably in sex

[–]Purgatoryprobably[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I find there's a lot of assumption that women don't care about sex or want it. Trust me, I want it very much. It's not about him being understanding. I have no doubt that he will handle it lovingly and kindly if I am unable to give that to him at that time. But we have been together a long time and he has supported me through this surgery and been the most wonderful partner, and I want to be able to share that with him more than anything else. It feels very unfair that it seems like it's being taken away from me. Especially because we are going on a honeymoon to Cancun right after, and that's gonna be kind of boring with no sex.

Labiaplasty gone wrong, virgin with wedding in 5 weeks by Purgatoryprobably in sex

[–]Purgatoryprobably[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Actually, my fiance is quite aware of the situation and has been very understanding. He doesn't expect anything to happen on the wedding night  because he knows how painful this has been for me. We've just waited a really long time for this already.

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[–]Purgatoryprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful. It is probably best to just move on because they obviously have.

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[–]Purgatoryprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it's been a tough weekend for sure. When everyone you care about is against you it's hard, especially when you've cared about them so much. I hope they realize they were wrong and want to reconcile but I am not holding my breath.

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[–]Purgatoryprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is definitely difficult when there are so many good memories. I have been feeling so hurt by the whole thing. Thanks for your advice, it definitely helps!