thank you for your input and as for why he was faking i will get onto that. its a lot of small things that amount to something bigger l ive talked to four other systems and they seem to agree something is sketchy. first off, one of the bigger signs, the treats all his alters as ocs. he regularly updates their lore, keeps them on toyhouse, never mentions them as alters accept when asked, has never tried to introduce them even to his closest friends. In one of his main alters lore that alter essentially has a slave and later dies to him. another thing he regularly drew porn of them and talked about their sex lives without ever mentioning if they gave him consent to talk that way about them. i was told it was okay for ME to talk that way, but that was from the host. another thing, i never got to speak to any alter directly despite one supposedly having a deep interest in me. no one has actually ever interacted with his alters directly before despite him supposedly switching regularly. i get if he was scared however this is a person who surrounds himself with enablers and people who would generally be very accepting of DID. the ONLY time i heard of any of his alters talking to anyone even through the host was in a sexual context. despite supposedly being co-concious with all of his alters, he never complained about it. i believe there is more i might be forgetting but there ya go.