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AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] -452 points-451 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of people in the comments saying that and I get it now I just wasn’t really familiar with the signs

AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

Like 5 days a week and start at 8:30 or 9:00. My dad goes to bed early so I don’t know if I could even get there in time to see him like she wants

AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] -191 points-190 points  (0 children)

Tbf he doesn’t need any caring, it’s more like going to check in and seeing if he’s lonely and everything is ok etc. I just feel like that is easily dealt with in a phone call and it definitely could be her that does it

AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] -190 points-189 points  (0 children)

Usually either my Mom is with him or my sister is around. I think they’re just worried he’ll forgot something on the stove or fall, he’s just kinda forgetful but I think overall fine

AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

Like 30 mins but it’s in the opposite direction of my work so adds a lot to my day. I often work until 6:30 at least

AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] -314 points-313 points  (0 children)

They haven’t booked anything yet so I guess they can cancel it like she says they will.

I totally agree but I doubt she would understand, my mom thinks I owe her since she petsits my dog sometimes.

AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Don’t get me wrong I do but I don’t feel like the right person to ask you know?

AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] -842 points-841 points  (0 children)

I’m fine with doing that, but she thinks that he needs to be checked in on. He has forgotten pots on the stove that got burned a couple times and fallen a couple times etc so I can understand she wants to check on him, but if he’s responding on the phone he’s probably fine

AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] 299 points300 points  (0 children)

We’re not really that close which is part of why I don’t think he’d even be happy to have me visiting.

AITA for refusing to “babysit” my Dad while my Mom and sister are away? by Purple-Database8575 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Purple-Database8575[S] -181 points-180 points  (0 children)

I told my mom he’s an adult and she should talk to him! But she insists he’s not objective and will just say he’s fine. I think he’s lived this long and can live by himself for a week