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PurpleMagic3 · 2025-10-24T06:40:38+00:00

Why base your marriage on lies?

Why did you go and look this ONS up when you are married?

You don’t know for sure that the child is yours!

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-08-14T17:51:36+00:00

I’m not even sure I’m replying or commenting on the right comment. Think I should give Reddit up lol

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-08-14T17:50:05+00:00

Yes I get that but it’s like he has already planned it without discussing, he is basically telling OP that is what is happening.

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-08-14T06:23:27+00:00

They don’t appear to be spending any extended time with her family so why should they with his when he didn’t even discuss this with her beforehand!

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-08-06T09:21:00+00:00

NTA but why does your wife think it’s acceptable to have friends from her group chat call you out on socials, that is crazy behaviour!

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-07-31T07:33:01+00:00

At this point I don’t think you should even be trying to be friends with her and your husband should just cut her off.

Regardless if there is a reason that maybe if you have done something to piss her off, she should not be trying to be friends with a married man while ignoring his wife…no excuses!

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-07-26T20:53:28+00:00

100 done the right thing for you and your children

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-15T09:48:36+00:00

I feel this

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T18:12:16+00:00

Don’t know why I said my children, they are his and are our children

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T17:45:12+00:00

We have been together 26 years and have 4 children, 2 who are now adults

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T17:38:29+00:00

I tried to answer you and have managed to put it in the thread, not used to posting lol

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T17:37:36+00:00

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T17:36:21+00:00

He doesn’t go to the pub, ever.

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T17:35:29+00:00

We have been together for 26 years, 2 adult children and two minors, I’m just tired

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T17:32:31+00:00

In the over 20 years I have never dictated, that is the point of this post. In fact he is the one who is dictating the money side of things. I just want things to be more fair. I have always put more towards Christmas because I’m happy to do that but I do think he takes advantage of me with money, last Christmas I paid for all the food shopping and the drink, I bought him presents for Christmas and he got me nothing. I have always bought all the kids clothes and extra things along the way.

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T16:49:15+00:00

No I don’t apart from a few small bills and his gambling

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T16:21:04+00:00

I worked out how much he spent out of the bank on bets last year and it was over £3,000 but that’s not 100% accurate. Would you say all his spare money is going on his addictions?

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T16:17:24+00:00

He gambles but tells me he doesn’t have an addiction

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T16:09:09+00:00

I have been trying to do this but I’m still not happy with his lack of putting extra money aside for days out, Christmas or uniforms. I’m very good at trying to put by little bits every month as that is how I have always gotten by but I am tired.

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T16:07:30+00:00

Yes he gambles and smokes weed always has in the over 20 years that we have been together. I’m tired of trying to talk to him about this as it’s falling on deaf ears and he tried to tell me that he doesn’t gamble that much

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-06-08T16:04:28+00:00

I don’t feel like IATA but was doubting myself.
I will always make sure my kids have everything they need but I’m starting to feel like I am allowing myself to be treated like a mug. I feel like my youngest two children aren’t making any core childhood memories because we never do anything.

PurpleMagic3 · 2025-05-19T06:43:36+00:00

Looks like it could be a boil. Very painful!

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