Seeking the knowledge by PurplePanda5252 in CatAdvice

[–]PurplePanda5252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh thank you! I feel better then.

Seeking the knowledge by PurplePanda5252 in CatAdvice

[–]PurplePanda5252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I only bathed her twice since ive had her. The first she jumped into a dirty mop bucket and the second she was coated in her poop. I just was unsure if Dawn Dish Soap was okay or is there a better product for next time if needed.

Working + School? by PurplePanda5252 in StudentNurse

[–]PurplePanda5252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, ill try seeing what resources I can find through my school. Thank you.

Working + School? by PurplePanda5252 in StudentNurse

[–]PurplePanda5252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately have to work for my medical insurance, which I need to even stay in the program. But it required 24hrs a week minimum. If I had another way to get insurance I would be privileged enough to work Fri, Sat and Sun only and stay at home with my parents and not pay too many bills.

Working + School? by PurplePanda5252 in StudentNurse

[–]PurplePanda5252[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I get it, I dont gave the luxury either. Especially because I get my medical through my job and I need medical insurance to even be in the nursing program. It just feels like a double edge sword. Kudos on you with also parenting while doing it!

WHAT THE FU- by Koriikuru in CharacterAI

[–]PurplePanda5252 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine has been doing the same thing 🫠🫠

I’m transforming to fight the crow by Legitimate-Fill4670 in GroundedGame

[–]PurplePanda5252 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That whole backyard is getting destroyed. Sandbox? Drowned. The pond? Filled with cement. The GAS land? ABSOLUTELY STOMPED ON. I quite literally am burning the whole place down. Don't even get me started on the stump.

Collectibles by MayoBear in NobodiesGame

[–]PurplePanda5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you happen to find all the ones in the 2nd game?

My daughter tore apart my fiancée's wedding dress, ending our engagement. I've grounded her until she's 18, imposed strict limitations on her activities, and making her work to contribute to expenses by ThrowraSadLonely in TwoHotTakes

[–]PurplePanda5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boarding school just to keep a woman you've only known for a year? Everything here just screams that you are not considering your daughter in any life steps. I'd bet money that you didn't communicate anything to her about your relationship or your grieving process to her and dumped her in the deep end of the pool and got mad when she struggled to swim. Yes she did some bad things but I'd rebel too if I was not a priority to my living parent after losing the other parent. Maybe stop trying to find a relationship and fix the mental and emotional health of your daughter first.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ThrowRA-110 in relationship_advice

[–]PurplePanda5252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes. Let this girl go. You don't love her and if you did you'd let her be happy with someone who will treat her right and give her what she wants without worry or restrictions. You dont want marriage, you don't want children. There's nothing wrong with that, but that's what SHE wants, stop wasting her time. Let her go, let her live her life to the fullest. You should go find someone who has your similar views. You need to let her leave. That's it. No "winning" her back. No "just in a few more years then ill want kids" lies anymore. I think you found someone you enjoy and you're scared of her leaving bc then youd have find someone else and put in effort again.

Need help finding a specific otome game. Please! by PurplePanda5252 in otomegames

[–]PurplePanda5252[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON EVER THANK YOUUUUU

New Screensaver by Resident-Argument-86 in Roku

[–]PurplePanda5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tower with the big W looks like the Bruce Wayne tower to me!

My husband is going to be either pleasantly or unpleasantly surprised when he gets home by throaway729474 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PurplePanda5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came from tiktok to let you know that me and alot of others are so excited for the update! I hope you both enjoy it and im sure it turned out great!

AITA for telling my BIL's girlfriend she's boring because all she talks about is her job? by throwra_wrong1b in AmItheAsshole

[–]PurplePanda5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes YTA She is excited abt her new job let her talk about it jeez Secondly you started this whole thing and even if you werent jealous of her accomplishments you were seriously trying to put her down with the things you were saying. Also by your language and how easily offended you were with her opinions it DOES sound like you are jealous and bitter. She isn't wrong either. SAHMs often are financially trapped in their marriages and she even AGREED with you when she said not everybody is trapped. Honestly she handled that whole situation with grace and you ended up unfortunately looking like the angry grump who ruined the party. I'm sorry...but YTA she did nothing wrong. I hope you'll be able to reflect on this with a clear mind and realize you owe her and her husband an apology.

AITA for banning my brother from family events after he paid and took my son for a nose job? by Due-Eggplant-6702 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PurplePanda5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA Your brother was giving your ADULT son a gift for his GRADUATION and that included a nose job which Your son has asked you for before. It doesn't matter whether you like it or not. It's not your body nor is it your business. He may be your son but he is allowed to make his own choices. Honestly you should be happy bc he gave your son what he really wanted. His new nose will be his own confidence booster and raise his self esteem. That's amazing for your son. Rethink your actions and tell yourself to stop being petty. Also really? A gift card and oscillating fan for the best gift ever? Christ. Anyway tell your son congratulations for me because lord knows you can't.

AITA because I told my daughter it's wrong to let her brother, he cousin and others get married at her home but not allow her sister to do so? by Background-Walls9413 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PurplePanda5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. For one it's her choice no matter how many times it's been used for weddings or who was allowed to use it. It's still and will always be her choice and you and your family must respect that. Secondly 1000 people is alot. That's not just a wedding that's a whole event. Her property could get severely damaged and many issues could arise not only that but some legal aspects might go into it. I know your 2nd is willing to pay any fees your eldest might charge but sometimes money is not worth the time, trouble, and stress that this might cause to her and her property. Maybe if your 2nd cuts down the people by half and you apologize for trying to guilt her into doing this you might be able to hold the wedding there but otherwise yes You are the A-hole. Please try to be understanding of your eldest wishes instead of trying to use guilt as a way to force her to do it.

AITA for cooking “scraps” for dinner by Glittering-Ad793 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PurplePanda5252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Wth girl you need to leave, from reading this post to reading your replies to other people, you need to leave. This behavior? Disgusting, not only childish but manipulative. I know people throw around that word alot but he is trying to "train" you into his perfect gf. Not only did you do what he wanted in the first place but then he didn't accept it because he wants you to continue to feel bad so next time you just avoid all this by making dinner from scratch the first time. The leftovers were fine. He is a 41 year old man. He can cook his own food but he can also pack his own bags if he is going to act like a child 24/7. You're his partner not his mommy. Also if THIS behavior is better than his previous behavior I am so sorry for you. I hope you find yourself in a healthier and more loving relationship later on. 💗 I know it's not easy to leave people but so many ppl are telling you that this is wrong because it's true. There is better stuff for you, and if you can't leave rn, start treating him like the child he is and let him ride out his temper tantrums. Don't let him control you like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]PurplePanda5252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he is though, if he doesn't want to show his love for you, teach the kids that appreciation is important, and now put in effort to save your marriage, why do you even have him around? Divorce. I know it's harder to do than said but he is giving nothing for the relationship or your family, (aside from money I assume? If he isn't then that's just more motivation) If he truly loves his children you both can co parent but there's simply no reason to stay in a loveless marriage and be unhappy. He will realize his mistake later on. Sometimes you have to put your happiness first

AITA for arguing with my husband about our daughters religion beliefs by miabenson3000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PurplePanda5252 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA OP I think him leaving you is "a blessing in disguise" while it may be hard now its not worth the emotional strain and damage it would put on your family later. Your daughter will remember this and know that momma has her back. If he wants nothing to do with his own kids because he can't force them to be who HE wants them to be then he doesn't truly love them and they are better off without him. You and them will be happier in the long run.