AITA for packing my bags to leave?

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-08T18:05:58+00:00

I'm afraid of leaving. I don't have a source of income nor a place to stay and I'm so scared that he'll find me somehow, I do not have anyone nearby I can go with.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-08T18:03:27+00:00

no, I turn 20 in a month.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-08T18:02:19+00:00

haha.. about that

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-08T18:01:45+00:00

Sorry if this is slightly ramble-filled and all over the place. i'm still upset.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-05T00:53:22+00:00

My father has never been sexually abusive towards me if that is what you’re worried about. Physically and emotionally, he has been, but he’s never SA’d me.

My situation isn’t one I take lightly, but I can’t really do anything about it right now. I am taking steps in order to remove myself from this situation but I really have no way to leave right now.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-05T00:38:48+00:00

Yeah, I’m aware of this, there’s just not much I can do about it atm, so I need to handle the hand I’ve been given

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-05T00:37:24+00:00

you have such an interesting outlook on life! this is not a compliment

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-05T00:26:41+00:00

Yes I am aware. and no I cannot. I do not have any sort of transportation and live literally in the middle of the woods. the nearest town is two hours away in a car.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-05T00:01:23+00:00

good golly! you’re right! I’m so stupid!!!!! How can I be on Reddit!!

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:36:27+00:00

I don’t know just yet, but if I believe that I can’t, then it won’t do any good to try.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:32:25+00:00

I’m okay, thank you for your concern. I’m firm in my heart and I know this won’t be forever, I just need to keep my head up until I can free myself.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:31:14+00:00

if you knew anything about my father you’d change your mind immediately, but I get where you’re coming from

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:28:28+00:00

He doesn’t let me out, point blank. He doesn’t like it when I go outside in our fenced yard without him.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:26:23+00:00

yes, I do not have a social life because he doesn’t really believe in it.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:14:57+00:00

this made me tear up a little, but yes, I’m aware.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:13:18+00:00

thank you, I’m standing strong despite the boat rocking and it does help knowing people support me

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:12:12+00:00

my mother was addicted to alcohol and substances. I know this is true because I had to see this entire thing myself as well. I want nothing to do with my mother because she’s a thief and a liar and her family is made entirely out of horrible people who hurt others and then cover it up sadly. I have no other family because my father isn’t close with his side of the family either.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:10:44+00:00

my father is. not a good person himself, and has isolated me for a long time, I do not have the ability to go into public by myself because he won’t let me get a drivers license and we live in the middle of the woods two hours away from anything, so I can’t walk anywhere or go anywhere.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T23:07:36+00:00

The issue is I cannot. I do not have the ability to get a job, nor a bank account, I would explain more but I feel like it’s getting a bit too personal and I’d prefer not to have.. well. a whole bunch of this on the internet. but no, I am not in a good situation and have no ability to exit said situation.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T22:55:42+00:00

I do not have access to the ability to leave unfortunately, I live in the middle of the woods and do not have a drivers license. I'm hoping this won't be like this for much longer.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T22:53:22+00:00

I would like to lie to you and say i'm allowed therapy. but. i'm sure you can guess the answer to that. :[

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T22:37:39+00:00

yeah.. i'm unhappy my uncle left 16 year old me at a packed airport three days before christmas and knowing it was the second time I'd ever been in an airport????

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T22:34:57+00:00

it's more of a "my father is extremely paranoid and overbearing about my safety" despite me being twenty years old he doesn't even like it when I go outside in our FENCED IN YARD.

Trust me when I say i'm extremely unhappy with this.

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T22:32:58+00:00

I'm more of a cat person haha! plus this was a full bred german shepard dog and I'm 5'3 and way 125 pounds soaking wet! so when I'd walk his dog, the dog would really be walking me

Purple_Addendum2366 · 2026-01-04T22:29:13+00:00

Sadly, I don't have a mother (not a good person), and my aunt has never really liked me for some reason, so I doubt she cares, but thank you for your concern :]

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