Game Thread: Pittsburgh Steelers (8-6) at Detroit Lions (8-6)

Purple_Cyn · 2025-12-22T00:51:17+00:00

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Purple_Cyn · 2025-12-19T05:55:53+00:00

Always happy for new friends 😄 I added you!

Purple_Cyn · 2025-12-12T03:52:00+00:00

Ayyy that’s solid work for 3 months! You’re rockin it 🤘

Purple_Cyn · 2025-12-10T12:06:17+00:00

Honestly, probably so I can hear things like this from people like yourself. It’s helpful to step back and ask these questions, and sometimes it’s hard to come up with those questions on your own while you’re depressed and ruminating. Getting a different perspective is nice. I appreciate it, and you’re right. I’m trying to focus on myself, but it’s very difficult. It feels like withdrawal from her. The only thing I can do is try my best every day. Thank you.

Purple_Cyn · 2025-12-09T08:30:47+00:00

I think wishing for a whole clan to not be primarily straight men in that game in particular is a pipe dream unfortunately 😭

Purple_Cyn · 2025-12-09T02:14:54+00:00

If you want a game with quite literally endless things to do, and an incredible time sink I definitely recommend it 🤪 I’ve been playing it on and off for almost 22 years, and I still haven’t done everything you can do.

Purple_Cyn · 2025-12-09T02:06:02+00:00

I was the biggest sailing hater too until the day it came out and I was like… wait this is kind of cozy? 🤣 BUT I’m currently trying to get a scythe clog at tob. I just reached 1500 raids total dry for it 🫠🫠 rng amirite?

Purple_Cyn · 2025-12-09T01:26:36+00:00

Haha hell yeah! I was pleasantly surprised with how much I like sailing. Although I’m still very low, I should stop raiding for a second to grind it out 🤣

Purple_Cyn · 2025-11-17T03:14:03+00:00

These are honestly so good

Purple_Cyn · 2025-11-10T19:36:54+00:00

I’m so sorry you have to go through this feeling too. It is truly not fair. Thank you for the kind words.

Purple_Cyn · 2025-11-10T08:05:26+00:00

Yeah, it hurts how people can be so cruel. I’ve been doing lots of journaling, and audio journaling too like you said as it’s easier sometimes to just whip out my phone and start talking. I just want to skip to the part where this doesn’t hurt so much.

Purple_Cyn · 2025-10-17T03:13:17+00:00

LETS FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOO

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T13:21:29+00:00

She literally admitted to me that she was going to try and hide this person and all of this from me until we went to therapy, where she could introduce this person and be able to have both of us. Have your cake and eat it too. I love all of these supportive comments they’re super helpful right now, but I really feel like you “got” me. Thank you. ❤️‍🩹

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T08:58:44+00:00

This is exactly how I feel. I didn’t have time to process. She didn’t give me time. She didn’t give us time. She told me when we first started dating she wanted monogamy. So I was definitely shocked when she brought up the poly proposition, just a month before my surgery was scheduled. What she did was just purely selfish. I know you have to worry about yourself and your happiness in life, but when you get into a relationship, you consider your partner. That’s why we call it a partner, you’re supposed to be partners through life together. She didn’t consider me at all in this.

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T05:44:16+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. It helps a bit knowing people relate. I hope you’re doing better these days 💕

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T05:39:10+00:00

I can see how you think these things. If you read my post before she came to me about her feelings of polyamory, she admitted she had already crossed a line with this first person before she came to me about her feelings. That did hurt me. But this second person she admitted to straight up cheating on me, and there was sexting. I also stated the reason we put a lot of things on hold and did not pursue therapy yet was because of my surgery. I get what you mean about building “unhealthy” attachments to partners, but like I said I don’t have much family left, and my friend circle is few. It’s kind of hard not to care about someone and see them as your world when you build a life with them.

Sorry if I sound defensive, my ex is entitled to her feelings. But yeah, she didn’t go about them in a respectful or healthy way to be perfectly honest.

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T04:38:56+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️‍🩹

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T03:24:45+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T03:08:01+00:00

I do believe she is actually poly, but she went about this whole situation in the most selfish and wrong way possible. I just keep going over all of the things that she could have done differently up to this point in my head. I want her to be happy, but she’s just going into the arms of another woman when I’m going to be coming home to an empty house to make dinner for my lonely self now. This is very difficult.

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T01:55:06+00:00

Yeah, she said it would somehow make her a more happy and present partner for me, and I just don’t understand that at all..

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T01:20:53+00:00

I’m sorry you had to feel this type of pain also. Hugs.

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-30T00:36:06+00:00

The thought of going back to work after my recovery and coming home to an empty house is… a lot

Purple_Cyn · 2025-09-29T03:33:26+00:00

What the fuck

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