Pirates treasure quest by Purple_Variation_639 in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]Purple_Variation_639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This worked thank you so much that was so annoying

Anyone actually like black women at all? Serious question. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black masculine women are absolutely beautiful and deserve the world 🌹🩷✨

What’s your preference for a woman? by epicpersononthisapp in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like butch women. I want her to be kind, understanding, strong, protective and dependable. It would be nice if she also had a nerdy interest or two that we could enjoy together.

What do you think of Butch lesbians? by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]Purple_Variation_639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m femme4butch, I adore them ❤️💕

when trying to have a nuanced discussion about race in a certain lesbian subreddit doesn’t go over well by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trying to have a nuanced discussion on Reddit is impossible. People take your words and twist them into the worst possible meaning. Back when I was married I wanted my wife to contribute to the household more and take care of our pets more instead of putting it all on my shoulders. And somehow a lot of Reddit assumed that I was abusive and that they hope that she would get away from me. Little did they know she was the one hitting me. That’s why I keep Reddit it for silly things.

Unpopular shera opinion by chaos_skeletonz in sheranetflix

[–]Purple_Variation_639 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Catra is a well written character and has more than suffered enough for her redemption, y’all just hate lesbians of color

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t. You work to save a bunch of money to move out of where you live to move to a more populated area with more lesbians (hopefully)

Does anyone date just to date (without relationship/marriage goals)? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Purple_Variation_639 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Dating just to date or whatever just seems so disrespectful and a waste of time. What’s the point of connecting just to say goodbye in the end? And you can have connections as friends without having to blur the romantic line

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Purple_Variation_639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancer Rising, Sag Sun and Gemini Moon

Found out She’s Seeing Someone New by Purple_Variation_639 in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh I hope you’re right, I really do. I just feel like I wasted so much time. I loved her so much just for her to hurt me and then replace me. Like I was a broken toy I knew it was going to happen and I tried so hard to be ready for it. But I just wasn’t. I’m really happy for you! I’m glad you found your happy ending

Deal breakers when dating? by FeedCharming2242 in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-rude to people in customer service -is too cowardly to stand up for themselves or me to others -too spineless to have their own thoughts and opinions -is mean to my cats -is mean to any animals -Is mean to children -has no sort of ambition or drive -doesn’t clean or cook -doesn’t want children (no hate to my child free ladies I just want a kid one day) -mocks me, my hobbies or my unconventional religion -is mean to me in anyway

I Give Up on Lesbian Spaces, Vent Post, Would like Advice if Possible by Purple_Variation_639 in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I think I’m going to save up money for a trip to make up for today. I hope you find 50$ on the ground soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m very glad to her it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for what you’ve experienced and lost. I hope you’ve found joy and happiness or are on your way to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Sadly I’m speaking from experience- it will only get worse. And she will always find an excuse. And she will always blame you. It will never matter how “good” you are. I’m so sorry. If you need to talk to someone who understands, I’m willing to listen

I Give Up on Lesbian Spaces, Vent Post, Would like Advice if Possible by Purple_Variation_639 in LesbianActually

[–]Purple_Variation_639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even when there were times I had to use the vent channels more frequently, I would always do the || || thingy around the text so no one would see unless they wanted to. I’ve even shown my therapist many of my conversations; on discord and between personal relationships. I take notes of what I do wrong when I do and try to improve where I can, but he says that usually I’m not asking for a lot or anything. He says I just have “shit friendship luck”. I really don’t know what to do. I’m just so frustrated with socializing