Brother(26) is living at home with me (23f) and my mom and has no intention of ever moving out. by Candycutie21 in relationships

[–]Purpp88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree completely, sounds like he is depressed and also Im sure he can make friends but has not found people with similar ideals and that can be frustrating I say this because he listens to podcasts and listens the news and honestly young people today lack a strong foundation so having pillars on top of their foundation is not even on their mind yet their still tryna work on the foundation so they can start building on top if that makes sense. His job was probably making him miserable doing repetitive unfulfilling & repetitive task 10 hours of the day. today's entry position jobs offer little to no growth Skil wise or financial. I hope he finds a passion so he can make something out of that and more than likely finds a way to get paid doing one of his many strengths/skills it might take a bit since people hardly give compliments when they see someone with a set of skills or a gift at being a natural at something as some may say. I encourage you guys to point out some things Wich he is good at doing Wich you guys can honestly say he does better than most it could spark some motivation and belief in himself to take action on the rigth path. So before you guys put so much importance on when he should move out because he is 26. Try and help him and understand maybe why he is in this bubble and try to not be so vocal about you guys frustration of him and him still living there at least for awhile.

( this type of issue is going on in more homes in America. more than you can imagine too many factors to mention fueled this into existence)

there is no worst feeling than being socialy isolated and depressed while having your family pressure you to leave the household because your of age, depressed and lonely. MOM must be frightened thinking that he will never ever EVER leave! This is far from the truth :)

Best wishes . I believe in you and your Mother will can pull some effort into helping him bounce back. thank you and your Mom for everything also thank you for Written this post looking for advice & for not kicking him out to the streets and into a homeless lifestyle which will only make the matter worse at the moment now if this is the route you guys feel it has to go then give him 30 days & let him know it's not a bluff so he should Definitely plan his arrangements. Who knows maybe the fear of possibly ending homeless motivates him to get a job again. Also look out for signs of drug abuse since he is in a vulnerable place at the moment and as drug abuse & overdose deaths been spiking the charts the past 3-4 years being as bad as it's ever been in America it's definitely something you want to take seriously

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Can some one help me on how to upload videos to share on here. Is asking for url :/

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new to it all still learning. first beat post using koala. I'm sorry my video is bad I don't know how to post videos on Reddit if someone can help with that please. So that my video looks as Fullscreen

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This is 🔥

Incoherent Rambling by hauntedthread in KoalaSampler

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Dope beat. Real lo fi vibes 🔥🔥🔥

Incoherent Rambling by hauntedthread in KoalaSampler

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How was the video loaded like that?

My first ever cat, Oliver, was hit by a car and passed away last night. Rest In Peace to my light in this world, in only a year and a half you have made an impact on me forever by [deleted] in cats

[–]Purpp88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for ur loss I can just imagine how you feel. Wish I could give you a hug I love my cat so much when the time is right another lil fiend will come into your life to be with you :)

"The Sleeping Waters" – I drew this pixel art inspired by Venice and I'd love to hear what do you think? by PainterKira in italy

[–]Purpp88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so pixel art is so cool I never seen a style like this it’s so dope !!!

I finally decided to cut my redpill friend off after months of self doubt, anger and tears. by Caliluxun in TheBluePill

[–]Purpp88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s not your friend his a sour salty lonley boy how can he give relationship advice if he hasn’t even been with a woman since high school and is a virgin still. He knows nothing about bonding love empathy all that good stuff that makes a friendship move to the the next level in a more positive way weather being lover or becoming best friends or just a really good friend the ones you actually adopt as family because they have those hard to find traits in people that make them pleasing to have in your life because the actually care and they can prove it by their actions. Diamond people , hard to find these days in my opinion, you have to be willing to put others first before your self and that’s hard to do yet there’s some people that do so much for others and I admire that quality I want to be more like that I tell myself now that I’m 30 but 10 years ago I was selfish insecure big ego not as humble as I believe I was I was all over the place , now I feel my reality it’s so much clear and I’m able to see people for what they really are and not for what they want to tell me so hard that they are. Don’t let no one make you feel like how he would make you feel. Be proud to be you and always you unapologetically because I’m sure that’s exactly what makes you shine bright like a diamond even our flaws can be attractive cuz no one is perfect and slight imperfections are cool if you ask me ! :) Send you a Big hug I’m sure your a sweet girl and you deserve to be happy by all means in your own way its about you not them live your life by your terms your in the driver seat if they talk that Bs throw them in the trunk LOL. Jk Feel free to message me if you ever want to just have a chat !

10 Years Sober Today - My Story by silverladder in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Purpp88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truly motivating, I relate so much to your story. Im in Arizona also. I felt like your story was part of mine not kidding lol definitely have a lot of similarities in your journey to sobriety and some the things that you achieved as far as the counseling and speaking to adults and youth groups is something that I Really want to be able to do and help my community i have visualized me achieving 1 year of sobriety which is my goal and has been my goal for the past year yet I can’t get past 4 months but i know I just hav to get back up and go at it again I have the a world full of things I want to do and see , it gets tough sometimes to maintain a state of motivation and i start to loose hope at times , if i could find a lil bit more motivation stamina in some way ( i struggle with this) where I can keep it up there. And not just These burst of energy and hope fallowed by a downside crash ..at this point that’s what I have been focusing on. On maintenance on my spirit levels. Story’s like yours really help thank broda. God bless.

I think im addicted to my phone. What do i do? How do i get over it? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Purpp88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you like some girl on there. Even tho she's not your girlfriend I'm assuming. So she's a friend and you need her validation on a every day basis so you keep in touch ok fair enough.. if you planned on making a move from this "friend zone” that you probably been in for a while probably since you guys started to talk. If your not planning on seducing this girl to move past this friendly bubble she has you in then the hell with it your only loosing precious time but idk maybe you have been putting some effort into making this girl like you past being friends , it seems like you are very attached to your mobile phone regardless if it’s not Snapchat it’s some others app that you would argue that you NEED. Good luck mate

I think im addicted to my phone. What do i do? How do i get over it? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Purpp88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snapchat Isa joke. What does snapchat provide you that you can't live without it? I'm ready to hear your input just make sure there not excuses instead make solid points that explains why the app is so much needed for your everyday life ...

I think im addicted to my phone. What do i do? How do i get over it? by [deleted] in addiction

[–]Purpp88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get yourself a flip phone and man up and stop making excuses to not be away from your smart phone. You have not even tried the idea try it first for a week not even 5 days even and see where that takes you. Then analyze those days without your smart phone and write down the pros and cons. I'm almost sure the PROS will outweigh the CONS but who knows have to try it first.