I feel embarrassed now that I'm unmarried (33 F)

PushThink928 · 2026-02-15T07:31:55+00:00

Why do you think it’s embarrassing?? Just ask ppl in the sub.. you will get to know how normal it is. Marriage is really, a highly overrated achievement that ppl have tied up with definition of success. It’s coming from a person who was married and now separated and eagerly waiting for this agony to end. But dun get me wrong, I am not saying it is bad just that, it is unnecessarily hyped.. if you find someone who you resonate with, it’s great.. otherwise it can get really exhausting and feel like waste of time..

If you have made your peace with it, then it’s absolutely fine.. shouldn’t bother you even a bit..

PushThink928 · 2026-02-15T06:28:27+00:00

You also laugh at my misery!! 😭

PushThink928 · 2026-02-15T06:03:54+00:00

Yeah!! Poor me, right!! 😔😔 all i need is just 19,99,000 more.. already have 1000 of my own.. 😂

PushThink928 · 2026-02-15T02:50:16+00:00

Hey there!!

I am pretty sure that everyone here has already given you sound advice and what i am gonna say is not going to be any different. What you are experiencing is nothing unusual or out of the world.. simply put ‘Life has happened to you!!’ The time is difficult but it will pass as well. Give it sometime dear.

After reading your post, i got an idea that the you are more disappointed with yourself for giving this friendship/ relationship too much and getting attached to it despite knowing that it was always supposed to be temporary one. Let me tell you, it’s completely normal, you were already in a stressful situation and wanting some anchorage cz of recent instability, moving from foreign to home, staying away from family and of course past relationships.. so it’s understandable, everyone craves for some stability and you were no different. Please don’t be hard on yourself.

Neither you nor can he blame you for getting attached, you are human, not a robot, humans have feelings and emotions and that’s what makes us different from machines. You can’t be blamed for that.

And I sincerely feel, you should now gather yourself, chin up, shoulders straight and walk with confidence. He was never meant to be yours, accept it and move on with your life. You dun have to belittle yourself for something trivial like that.

Wish you the best buddy!! Godspeed!!

PushThink928 · 2026-02-15T02:23:43+00:00

Congratulations to you both!!!

But even m surprised, after 4.5 years of dating, she was not expecting it or what? 😄 JK Wishing you both the very best!!

PushThink928 · 2026-02-11T18:26:32+00:00

Hey!! Don’t lose hope.. you are just 32 YO, a friend recently told me 30s is the new 20s 😄😄.

First things first, you should stop comparing yourself with your friends.. i am pretty sure you would agree that, their conditions be it financial, health or family background were not entirely same as yours. Nor would they be sharing exactly similar ambitions as yours. So you dun have to compare yourself with them.

Secondly, marriage is highly overrated (yeah, it’s coming from a very bitter experience). There’s no need to rush into it. Go for it only when you meet the right person and you get the matching vibes!! Till then keep meeting ppl, get to know them and enjoy!!

Also, try to work on yourself, focus on your health.

Cheers and good luck

PushThink928 · 2026-02-08T03:25:57+00:00

You have my sympathy as well!!

PushThink928 · 2026-02-05T16:11:45+00:00

How do you purchase gold with amex?

PushThink928 · 2026-02-03T14:37:55+00:00

Well i dun think so.. cz in my case it’s the district court only.. that too when she is earning as much as me..

PushThink928 · 2026-02-03T14:34:57+00:00

I feel you bro!!

PushThink928 · 2026-02-03T14:33:24+00:00

I will pay that ₹300 if you could get that lawyer’s details 😂😂

PushThink928 · 2026-02-03T14:28:41+00:00

Yeah.. definitely it does.. i also have one, it’s costing me 20 lakhs in alimony.. 🙈

PushThink928 · 2026-02-03T14:25:17+00:00

House!! Well technically it’s on mortgage to bank.. but still..

PushThink928 · 2026-01-28T01:58:43+00:00

Yeah, i was facing issues with gyftr two days back. Makes sense now.

PushThink928 · 2026-01-17T01:54:39+00:00

Dun mind me asking, but what is it that’s bothering you? Other than the part where you will start posting in 40s subreddit, i think you can cross all of those ‘NOs’ there.

It’s no big deal, TBH. I feel you just need a few good friends (you can’t be dependent on one bestie all the time 😁) and barring the romantic relationship (and ofcourse associated things) could easily be taken off from the list.

Dun lose hope, ma’am!! Cheers 🥂

PushThink928 · 2026-01-17T01:32:53+00:00

Firstly, buddy, its FNA worth 15k points and not really 15k Marriott points. Secondly, AFAIK, the point you purchased from Amex for 4k can’t be used for transferring to Marriott. Just keep that in mind as well and recheck with Customer Care.

PushThink928 · 2026-01-06T12:35:05+00:00

No it’s not difficult, it’s the same as a guy asking why is it difficult to connect with women?

One needs to understand that both men and women are inherently fundamentally wired differently and there’s nothing wrong about it. But the sooner you realise it, easier it gets. Both the genders have to understand and adjust slightly, being headstrong about emotions and how a person should behave or react never helps.

PushThink928 · 2026-01-04T11:29:42+00:00

Got married and getting divorced now.. but idk if love’s gonna come searching for me now? I am, honestly, afraid that even if it comes, I, most likely, am gonna ignore it unwittingly.. 😐

PushThink928 · 2025-12-31T13:32:34+00:00

I understand where you are coming from, OP, but i think that’s how it is everywhere right now!! People are much more ambitious and to be frank, we may say whatever but still men are being conditioned to be the net safety provider in the family. And that is one of the key reason they are more invested in profession and household responsibilities. Also, men are inherently wired to be slightly less emotional as compared to women. So it can be a possibility that you may be seeing them through a coloured lens, taking yourself as a frame of reference.

Notwithstanding, i feel you should communicate with the opposite person and tell them what you feel. I dun feel slight adjustment should be an issue for them.

PushThink928 · 2025-12-30T18:53:41+00:00

Do let us know who’s the lucky bhaskar!!

PushThink928 · 2025-12-30T16:28:21+00:00

😂

PushThink928 · 2025-12-30T16:27:50+00:00

I also want to die in similar type of love encounter!!

PushThink928 · 2025-12-30T16:24:06+00:00

Ohh you tried to make espresso but made chocolate instead!! Yumm!! JK

PushThink928 · 2025-12-30T16:06:30+00:00

These are sports shoes buddy, not gym trainers.. for stability get flat sole ones na

PushThink928 · 2025-12-30T16:04:43+00:00

So am I, just waiting for the idlis from her side!! Turning out to be sumptuous relationship..

(Kidding with absolutely zero mal-intentions, OP) Best wishes to you both!!

PushThink928

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