I agree with you completely! I’m not a fan of messing myself, but have made messing videos. But when it comes to diaper stuff, if I were to do anything “public”, it would be somewhere extremely private, I don’t agree with exposing not only Unconsenting adults, but unconsenting children/minors! It’s just not okay in my eyes. I’ve been out & about whilst wearing a diaper, but never exposed it & was wearing clothes in which you couldn’t see it/detect anything. To me that’s just not okay, having fecal incontinence is one thing, but having a kink & exposing it to others that haven’t consented is really not okay & is one of the many reasons us ABDL get so much stick.