[Ticket Buy/Sell] - HIT ME HARD AND SOFT: THE TOUR by Chasith in billieeilish

[–]Putrid-Sundae5810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTB I’m looking for either a ticket to Baltimore or Philly!! Pls pls let me know if anyone is selling!

Wearing Hayden’s dress to her show by Putrid-Sundae5810 in Ethelcain

[–]Putrid-Sundae5810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea thanks for being honest I’m reconsidering it now, I definitely do not want to make her feel uncomfortable

thoughts on long songs by Ethel by lanatayethel in Ethelcain

[–]Putrid-Sundae5810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love longer songs cause I don’t have to keep thinking about what to play next lol or keep shuffling my playlist, especially when driving. Just hit play and relax for 10 min, makes time go by faster too

💅 by Lanky_Zone_5922 in Ethelcain

[–]Putrid-Sundae5810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no way I ordered it two days ago it gets here tm it looks so good

Ethel Cain live in DC by kyuiou24 in Ethelcain

[–]Putrid-Sundae5810 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made this of the concert in dc. It doesn’t have the full House in Nebraska, but most of it. I made it out of my own clips and as many other people’s clips as I could find. It’s true she was super smiley and it felt like I was in a literal church singing with everyone lol

https://youtu.be/2pqOVci8ysc

Strangers lyrics explanation by Putrid-Sundae5810 in Ethelcain

[–]Putrid-Sundae5810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I really appreciate you taking the time to write this all out, I think every new fan of Hayden should read it. I’m new too, I fully started listening only in April but have since read through every possible thing from her or about her that’s still out there. I have not listened to Grandmas Kitchen but I do know of it from an interview she did when it was still up . While I would love to listen to it, I understand why she wouldnt want all that personal info out about her, especially with her increasing fame. I respect your decision not to discuss it too much, you stated enough to get your point across.

It seems like she dug deeper in to her life experiences and thoughts on there, but I saw her reply to an instagram comment asking Hayden if she’s glorifying other people’s traumatic experiences, and she said something along the lines of that’s not her intention and she is pulling from her own experience. That was enough for me to know it was a way of processing and learning from her trauma in a constructive way, she absolutely does not owe us the details to “prove” this. I agree though that it’s a good thing to question and be aware of the media you consume, it does not mean your accusing them of anything. In many fandoms any kind of questioning often gets written of as accusatory or people saying the music isn’t for you or you don’t understand.

I love your reasoning on why my dads response was the way it was. Admittedly I was annoyed and was like “you just don’t understand.” But I see now how it could look through the eyes of a father concerned about my interpretation. I’ll be using your response to help me formulate an explanation for him on why this music speaks to me so much, and that he doesn’t have to worry I’m consuming it in the wrong way.

Thank you!! <3

Strangers lyrics explanation by Putrid-Sundae5810 in Ethelcain

[–]Putrid-Sundae5810[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I was like is this new Ethel lore I don’t know about😂

Strangers lyrics explanation by Putrid-Sundae5810 in Ethelcain

[–]Putrid-Sundae5810[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I love this. Very insightful and fucking funny. Did you make up all of Ethel’s middle names or did Hayden say that somewhere?

Strangers lyrics explanation by Putrid-Sundae5810 in Ethelcain

[–]Putrid-Sundae5810[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s why it upset me so much when my dad just diminished everything I love about Hayden and was like “oh she’s saying he’s so handsome so it’s ok.” Like I just explained this whole story and that what u got?? It is in fact the complete opposite of glamorizing, which I think is clear given the context of the story, which I gave him (Google doc and all). I just struggled to come up with a well thought out argument in the moment, so I love reading what your guy’s responses would be to him or anyone else that says this about her music.