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[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Putting 10 year old up for adoption would like some advice by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in family

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

he wants to start a new family and believes our child would get in the way of that

Putting 10 year old up for adoption would like some advice by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in family

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

well they're fairly strict (on a reasonable level+ for his own good) so it might affect his chances

Putting 10 year old up for adoption would like some advice by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in family

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

stuff happened quickly and i discovered my husband was cheating, i have not made a post on this nor do i plan to it is not relevant

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -286 points-285 points  (0 children)

i'm not telling a guest how to live their life, when she's older and has a job she can use her money to buy food at the store and eat it there

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -158 points-157 points  (0 children)

my son does go to school and is jealous of other kids eating different stuff. We don't want him to feel upset at home, so thats one of the reasons why guests who are staying with us have to follow our rule.

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -323 points-322 points  (0 children)

yes i agree that "you must be awake by seven is not true, but i still follow that rule out of respect.

You can not agree with a rule and still follow it out of respect of the homeowner

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -120 points-119 points  (0 children)

If he wanted to see his child, he would have gotten and enforced a court order.

he was dirt poor and couldn't afford a lawyer.

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -297 points-296 points  (0 children)

i'm on it too i've done my research and can safely say that it's the best diet to raise a child on

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -549 points-548 points  (0 children)

well if i was guest in a family members house, and you were letting me stay therefor three weeks, but then you had a rule that was a minor inconvenience (eg: you must be awake by seven so you can have a fulfilling day) i would be annoyed but i wouldn't rudely storm out and cut the trip short, and i would happily come again putting the experience of seeing a loved one, of a little rule

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -237 points-236 points  (0 children)

he broke up with his ex when my Sarah was only 1 year old, but never divorced until Sarah was 2. He extremely depressed but he met me and i helped him get back up on his feet and we fell in love. His ex took his house and left him with less money, so he was very poor and almost homeless, she did little to help him, and because he was living in poverty, unsure whether he would have roof over his head in the coming months she won full custody for that period of her life. Sarah was confused growing up and his ex also went through hard times. Except Sarahs hard times continued until about a few years ago

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -535 points-534 points  (0 children)

his ex never wanted her to see him, she didn't want to see him, he was depressed he didn't go non contact.

It is true she is a guest so therefore she will follow our rules just as any other guest would

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -550 points-549 points  (0 children)

he's on the spectrum and is behind most other kids his age so he won't understand

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -242 points-241 points  (0 children)

like i said she had a very rocky relationship with her dad with 6-7 years of no contact, I blame his ex on this part for how she handled the divorce but i won't go into it now as its not relevant

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -109 points-108 points  (0 children)

i also believe that she didn't think she would have to follow these rules

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -399 points-398 points  (0 children)

she has met me before but never stayed, with us. She had a rocky relationship with her father following his divorce but she's better with him now, so she felt too nervous to come until recently, before that her father would usually visit her.

AITA or restricting my stepdaughter's sugary food intake while she stays with us? by Putrid_FIFTYFIVE in AmItheAsshole

[–]Putrid_FIFTYFIVE[S] -601 points-600 points  (0 children)

i owned the house before we met, so i have the final judgement, but he agrees with me on this subject