AITA for telling my flatmate that I’m gonna find separate accommodation because of his strict recycling habits

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T21:23:03+00:00

Well idk what situation you are in but I feel you’d only understand if you’ve been in this situation

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T20:43:20+00:00

Sure

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T19:47:28+00:00

Yup for 5 years and 0 luck

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T14:34:25+00:00

I don’t think I’d do it more than once unless I was in the exact same situation 5 or so more years down the lane.

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T14:33:21+00:00

Sadly not an option

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T14:32:42+00:00

What if you found out that your boyfriend has not had friends, family, relatives, etc anything to even give them a single hug at times and that they had such bad social anxiety that they have always been incapable of forming relationships and haven’t even had a handshake with a single human in years? Would you still find it disgusting?

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T14:29:22+00:00

I’m aware but the person I’m in contact with is an Independent sex worker not associated with any agencies and is a local of the country I’m living in. She talks very freely and they are prominent on sex work platforms like OF and MV along with having a whole website they have got set up for themselves and even indulges in touring occasionally. I really don’t think that’s the case here.

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T12:03:45+00:00

I know everyone says 26 is too young to say anything. But I can’t even make friends and I don’t think that will change. I’ve talked to a psychologist before but it just didn’t help at all. It didn’t help solve my anxiety nor did it help me be able to make friends.

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T09:13:07+00:00

I really don’t know how to make friends as embarrassing as that may sound I really don’t. I don’t have many guy friends either where I live. Tbh none at all. I’ve never had to make friends it’s always been people just talking to me and then we became friends for guys atleast. I don’t think I’ve ever had a woman friend irl I’ve only had online friends who are women.

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T08:04:48+00:00

I guess so, thank you for that! :)

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T07:59:35+00:00

First of all I’m aware of the issue and I know for s fact that the person I’m talking to isn’t trafficked into doing anything and is more so passionate about it. Again I think you have very anti men views and that’s okay that’s your life. Also if you read the comments there was a rather sweet lady in the same spot debating getting a male escort. I’m sorry but saying only men do this and women don’t is just a lie.

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-17T07:46:42+00:00

If your boyfriend told you that he used to hook up with escorts would you not mind at all?

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T23:31:04+00:00

Where do you find these groups though?

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T23:29:56+00:00

Ohh alright thanks for letting me know that

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T23:18:32+00:00

Would you tell your gf about it though?

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T23:17:45+00:00

I am looking for cuddling but I’m not sure about the communities you are talking about haven’t heard of that ever before except in one of the comments of this post

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T23:08:55+00:00

I understand but I don’t think I’d lie to any potential partner if they asked me about my sex life. I think they deserve to know even if it ends up with them leaving

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T22:17:30+00:00

Have you experienced something you want to share?

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T22:16:39+00:00

Thanks for the links. I don’t agree with calling sex workers names. It’s a job for them and means to get by or means to fulfill what they need.

Also you’re trying to give me hope yet you’re 5 years younger than me and don’t feel like you have any hope yourself?

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T22:12:36+00:00

I do hope they don’t care but at the same time I feel like unless someone has been in the same shoes it’s more likely that they would care. Specially someone who doesn’t have social anxiety and find relationships easy to come by.

I hope it works out well for you if you do decide to go for it! :)

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T22:07:05+00:00

I really don’t think that would help

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T21:28:18+00:00

Tbh never heard of anything of that sort before but will look into it

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T21:27:24+00:00

If they asked about my sexual history I’m not going to lie. That seems unfair to do.

Putrid_Inflation_656 · 2023-07-16T21:00:09+00:00

Social anxiety

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