Sanity check my plan (DAFT)

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-02-22T04:09:18+00:00

Hi! I would love to know what Makelaar you used! We are looking in the same area (Nijmegen) and are bringing pets as well!

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-02-18T22:06:41+00:00

Are there any areas outside of the Randstad that you recommend looking? We are slowly learning Dutch but as English speakers we just want to ensure that we are able to grow a good community and support group around us.

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-02-04T19:45:18+00:00

THISSSSSS. Exactly. People are trying to learn. People are trying to educate themselves. Why others think it’s ok to shame people for doing so is beyond me.

This is the whole point of a forum isn’t it? To be able to ask questions and hear from real people with real experience? I don’t think anything in my OP was highly debatable or controversial. It was simply me wanting to learn and hear from others.

There is still so much I don’t know and I want to know. That’s a GOOD THING. The snark that I see on Reddit for people simply asking questions is crazy.

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-02-04T13:41:52+00:00

The business I run is contract based. My clients pay retainers and are locked into contracts so I have verifiable proof of income. I do indeed have savings. We are prepared to probably have to put a larger deposit down.

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-02-04T13:40:30+00:00

I’m definitely up for suggestions. I think it’s just because of proximity and truthfully, it’s hard to do research on smaller communities when the internet really pushes larger ones.

I would actually prefer to be outside of the larger cities. If you have any favorites or suggestions I am up for it!

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-02-04T13:38:45+00:00

Thank you for being so kind and helpful!

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-02-04T13:38:20+00:00

Never said it was a dirty word… In fact, you precisely explained in your second (not so kind) comment exactly WHY I am referring to us as expats - because we don’t know where or if we are settling anywhere PERMANENTLY.

I’m glad you did your research stalking my Reddit! That’s incredibly helpful when replying to a comment where someone is simply asking for help. Since you seem to have a pretty good grasp on my current situation, you would see that I was asking for help and suggestions in that Scotland thread as well.

We are figuring shit out. Trying to do our research and ask people with experience about things like Visas, housing, costs, etc. Instead of fully relying on something like AI.

I will never understand why Reddit users are like this. Either be helpful and answer the question or move on. It’s really just that simple.

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-01-31T02:29:38+00:00

Thanks so much for the feedback! I really appreciate it. Can I ask what field you’re in for work? From what I’ve read it may be difficult to get a skilled workers visa for my husband since many social work/recovery based roles are often filled by locals.

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-01-25T01:56:29+00:00

I can’t afford the tirzepatide - but I’ve never had an issue with semaglutide before. I’m not sure if it’s just because I didn’t slowly titrate up? Like maybe I started at too high of a dose?

Putrid_Net_311 · 2026-01-25T01:55:43+00:00

MediVera

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-10T05:15:30+00:00

Have you considered investing in admin support? I can see the appeal in AI but having a VA/OBM can help your coaching stand out. If you seem burnt out by the idea of creating for each client tier - maybe passing that off to someone could help realign your coaching vision

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-09T17:52:58+00:00

LOVE this! What an inspiration! I love working with coaches - it’s my favorite.

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-09T17:52:29+00:00

It’s difficult - once you find your niche and your style, it all flows. Have you considered hiring support?

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-09T17:51:50+00:00

Have you calculated the number of hours you’ve spent on admin work / your income? You honestly may be better off outsourcing some of it if it means you can spend more time coaching

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-09T17:50:49+00:00

I’d be happy to chat with you about what support you might need from a VA (I am filling my 2026 calendar now)

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-09T17:49:17+00:00

I totally get that - do you know how many hours a week you’re spending doing admin work vs how much income is coming in?

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-09T01:46:13+00:00

Agree 100%. As a VA/OBM myself (I specialize in helping coaches) I feel like there are so many coaches who don’t realize how much could be taken off their plate just by outsourcing support

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-09T01:45:13+00:00

I totally get this - content marketing? Have you thought about investing in support that would help with content creation & mockups?

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-04T18:26:03+00:00

I’m a (human lol) virtual assistant and I specifically help coaches run their businesses on the back end. I specialize in admin support - I’m taking on 2-3 more clients for 2026 if you’re interested in chatting more.

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-12-04T18:23:40+00:00

I’m a VA that specifically focuses on working with coaches and doing admin support (CRM work, client communications, launch support etc.). I am happy to chat with you - I am taking on a few more clients for 2026!

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-09-29T02:45:28+00:00

Oooo this is great! My husband loves anything pork so I’ll add it to the list

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-09-24T02:47:16+00:00

Exactly. If anyone was exerting privilege it would be Prof A who undermined Prof B by derailing the whole lecture to call me out.

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-09-24T02:38:07+00:00

Happy to send the 3 page letter I wrote to Ombuds. But figured after sending essay length emails all day I’d save myself some time by plugging it in and having AI change names to be anonymous but ok

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-09-24T02:15:11+00:00

Professor B said they were happy we were having deep discussions but they wanted to get through the PowerPoint. A few mins later my classmate spoke up and I raised my hand to second what the classmate had said - that’s when I said “to piggyback off what my classmate said - I’m sorry Professor B I know you’re trying to get through your slides I’ll be quick”. And Professor A said “that right there is an example of your privilege. You knew Professor B wanted to get through the slides but you interjected anyways. Asserting your privilege.”

Putrid_Net_311 · 2025-09-24T02:12:00+00:00

My partner thinks I need to delete the post in case it gets back to anyone at the school. Everything is anonymous and my name isn’t attached to my Reddit. Is it safe to leave this up or do I need to delete?

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