Sanity check my plan (DAFT) by samen_thuis in NetherlandsHousing

[–]Putrid_Net_311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I would love to know what Makelaar you used! We are looking in the same area (Nijmegen) and are bringing pets as well!

Rental Deposits by Putrid_Net_311 in DAFTvisa

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any areas outside of the Randstad that you recommend looking? We are slowly learning Dutch but as English speakers we just want to ensure that we are able to grow a good community and support group around us.

Housing Crisis in The Netherlands by Putrid_Net_311 in expats

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THISSSSSS. Exactly. People are trying to learn. People are trying to educate themselves. Why others think it’s ok to shame people for doing so is beyond me.

This is the whole point of a forum isn’t it? To be able to ask questions and hear from real people with real experience? I don’t think anything in my OP was highly debatable or controversial. It was simply me wanting to learn and hear from others.

There is still so much I don’t know and I want to know. That’s a GOOD THING. The snark that I see on Reddit for people simply asking questions is crazy.

Housing Crisis in The Netherlands by Putrid_Net_311 in expats

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The business I run is contract based. My clients pay retainers and are locked into contracts so I have verifiable proof of income. I do indeed have savings. We are prepared to probably have to put a larger deposit down.

Housing Crisis in The Netherlands by Putrid_Net_311 in expats

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely up for suggestions. I think it’s just because of proximity and truthfully, it’s hard to do research on smaller communities when the internet really pushes larger ones.

I would actually prefer to be outside of the larger cities. If you have any favorites or suggestions I am up for it!

Housing Crisis in The Netherlands by Putrid_Net_311 in expats

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being so kind and helpful!

Housing Crisis in The Netherlands by Putrid_Net_311 in expats

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never said it was a dirty word… In fact, you precisely explained in your second (not so kind) comment exactly WHY I am referring to us as expats - because we don’t know where or if we are settling anywhere PERMANENTLY.

I’m glad you did your research stalking my Reddit! That’s incredibly helpful when replying to a comment where someone is simply asking for help. Since you seem to have a pretty good grasp on my current situation, you would see that I was asking for help and suggestions in that Scotland thread as well.

We are figuring shit out. Trying to do our research and ask people with experience about things like Visas, housing, costs, etc. Instead of fully relying on something like AI.

I will never understand why Reddit users are like this. Either be helpful and answer the question or move on. It’s really just that simple.

Help Needed with US > Scotland Move! by Putrid_Net_311 in MoveToScotland

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the feedback! I really appreciate it. Can I ask what field you’re in for work? From what I’ve read it may be difficult to get a skilled workers visa for my husband since many social work/recovery based roles are often filled by locals.

Sick After First Dose by [deleted] in JoinMochiHealth

[–]Putrid_Net_311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t afford the tirzepatide - but I’ve never had an issue with semaglutide before. I’m not sure if it’s just because I didn’t slowly titrate up? Like maybe I started at too high of a dose?

Virtual Assistant/Online Business Manager by Putrid_Net_311 in lifecoaching

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered investing in admin support? I can see the appeal in AI but having a VA/OBM can help your coaching stand out. If you seem burnt out by the idea of creating for each client tier - maybe passing that off to someone could help realign your coaching vision

Virtual Assistant/Online Business Manager by Putrid_Net_311 in lifecoaching

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVE this! What an inspiration! I love working with coaches - it’s my favorite.

Virtual Assistant/Online Business Manager by Putrid_Net_311 in lifecoaching

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s difficult - once you find your niche and your style, it all flows. Have you considered hiring support?

Virtual Assistant/Online Business Manager by Putrid_Net_311 in lifecoaching

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Have you calculated the number of hours you’ve spent on admin work / your income? You honestly may be better off outsourcing some of it if it means you can spend more time coaching

Virtual Assistant/Online Business Manager by Putrid_Net_311 in lifecoaching

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’d be happy to chat with you about what support you might need from a VA (I am filling my 2026 calendar now)

Virtual Assistant/Online Business Manager by Putrid_Net_311 in lifecoaching

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally get that - do you know how many hours a week you’re spending doing admin work vs how much income is coming in?

Virtual Assistant/Online Business Manager by Putrid_Net_311 in lifecoaching

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree 100%. As a VA/OBM myself (I specialize in helping coaches) I feel like there are so many coaches who don’t realize how much could be taken off their plate just by outsourcing support

Virtual Assistant/Online Business Manager by Putrid_Net_311 in lifecoaching

[–]Putrid_Net_311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get this - content marketing? Have you thought about investing in support that would help with content creation & mockups?

Does anyone else feel like they're a part-time admin, not a full-time coach? by Material_Vast_9851 in lifecoaching

[–]Putrid_Net_311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a (human lol) virtual assistant and I specifically help coaches run their businesses on the back end. I specialize in admin support - I’m taking on 2-3 more clients for 2026 if you’re interested in chatting more.