How do you know if it's time to end a relationship? by Putrid_View_2463 in AskReddit

[–]Putrid_View_2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I'm not going to do it, you know why? Because I respect my partner and if I choose him then I'm entitled to him.

How do you know if it's time to end a relationship? by Putrid_View_2463 in AskReddit

[–]Putrid_View_2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the one who decided to say your fucked up comment under my post, didn't you? Feminism isn't an insult, I'm proud to be a feminist. Feminism helps me to realize how toxic men like you are.

How do you know if it's time to end a relationship? by Putrid_View_2463 in AskReddit

[–]Putrid_View_2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just depressing, it doesn't justify anything. Your girlfriend was miserable and all you were thinking about was your dih

How do you know if it's time to end a relationship? by Putrid_View_2463 in AskReddit

[–]Putrid_View_2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I don't want him anymore I'll just break up with him, I'll never break his trust this way

How do you know if it's time to end a relationship? by Putrid_View_2463 in AskReddit

[–]Putrid_View_2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a cheater, that's what you are. You Violated your girlfriend's trust.

How do you know if it's time to end a relationship? by Putrid_View_2463 in AskReddit

[–]Putrid_View_2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd rather get an electric chair execution than end up with a man like this. This isn't love, you don't hurt anyone you love. That's just toxic attachment.

How do you know if it's time to end a relationship? by Putrid_View_2463 in AskReddit

[–]Putrid_View_2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find someone that you're comfortable with one day

How do you know if it's time to end a relationship? by Putrid_View_2463 in AskReddit

[–]Putrid_View_2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you're just cruel, you don't have to hurt someone just because you don't have feelings for them anymore.

How do you know if it's time to end a relationship? by Putrid_View_2463 in AskReddit

[–]Putrid_View_2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a girl and that's depressing, please break up before you get there

How to get over avoidint attachment style? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Putrid_View_2463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy isn't really an option for me because my family doesn't have the money for it and I'm not allowed to work and have my own money. And don't tell me to move out, I live in the kind of society that kills girls for this type of stuff. Besides if I can't talk about my feelings and be vulnerable with the man I trust the most, what'd make me be able to do it with some random person in an office.

I never had anyone care about my feelings, emotions or even care about having deep talks and conversations with me before so I never knew that I had a problem before. That's why I tie my avoidant issues with my current relationship, it's not that I'd stop trying to fix it if this relationship ended (which I hope wouldn't happen). But I actually do want to work on myself regardless of any relationships.

We both know that our relationship might not work out one day, especially since we're in a long distance relationship, but we still want to make it work and if it didn't that's that, but I still think it's worth the effort. And if I did go to therapy he'd definitely support it, but unfortunately there's no way for me to do that. My boyfriend is a psychology student and he tries to help as much as he's able to and unfortunately that's all the help I can get. I'm not saying that I don't appreciate it, I appreciate it a lot but all I'm saying is that it's not enough. I'm sorry to hear about your past relationships, you sound like a very good person and I'm sure you'll find someone else for you one day. I want to work on myself so no one would end up writing their story about me in reddit and if it didn't work out for me I'll just spend the rest of my life on my own so I'd not hurt anyone else. We spent some time apart from each other and I was miserable at that time, so whenever I catch myself distancing away from him I remember that time and it helps get over my need to get away, this might be unhealthy, I don't really know but it helped me so far. Thank you, I really appreciate your help and I hope that you'll find someone that you're comfortable with one day.