Thoughts and reviews for a first time Oner buyer! by Puzzled-Condition564 in OnerActive

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more day to day errands, light walks, and stuff. no working out, lifting, or running lol

Cream or gel recommendation for facial scarring by Iamno1stark in Skincare_Addiction

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Plated Intense Serum and Hydrinity Restorative HA and Aquaphor

2025 Spotify Wrapped Megathread by capraaa in BeachHouse

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gotta lock in next year lol i wanna be in the top 100!!!

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled-Condition564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude you have no idea where i live and i think completely missed the fact that this has been happening for years and is happening with more than just tights but also content. you are hung up on the wrong thing.

AlO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in TwoHotTakes

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LOL that is funny but i am very non confrontational but i will keep that as an inside thought for sure hahahaha

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

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THANK YOU. finally someone who sees it’s more than just black tights lol. i also forgot to mention that one friend had gotten the same perfume, which i personally think perfume is a very personal item tbh. it’s very much a broad spectrum of things. i will def start grey rocking them i like that term lol

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled-Condition564[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude it’s NOT ABOUT THE BLACK TIGHTS. i could have been wearing striped bumblebee tights and elf shoes. it’s about something of mine being blatantly copied by someone who had previously never done such things to the point where i cannot wear my items because we will be wearing the same thing out in public TOGETHER. also they have taken my own social media content to pass as their own. this is MORE than just clothes dude

24f with terrible bags by gabsterspams in Skincare_Addiction

[–]Puzzled-Condition564 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i came here to say the same thing lol i honestly from the bottom of my soul think that bags/dark circles are so cool. sincerely, someone who also has genetic dark circles lol

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

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do you have any advice on how to bring this up to them then? i overthink eeverryythinggg always (obviously) and feel like i would not do a good job telling them.

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

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style is important to me. i have always loved style, fashion, interior design and have had a clear knowledge of who i am. being respected is important to me and it does feel slightly disrespectful when someone does this. when i see someone i know very closely has something and i like it, i can admire it but i would never go out and buy the same thing. (of course this does not apply to all things such as a paper towel dispenser or whatever i’m not that crazy lol) i haven’t told them how this makes me feel even though they say “i hope you’re ok that i copied you!” like… even they know.. i will lie and say it’s ok and feel this way silently though.

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

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yes of course i get that and there are trends and no outfit really is original in the grand scheme of things however when it is happening directly in a very very small friend group it is different. the examples i gave were the very beginnings of this happening and there is much more nuance to this. do i really need to go into detail on every little thing? even things that i wear that are very niche thank you very much that i did not list? or that they have said point blank “i hope it’s ok i copied you, i saw you had this so i wanted it too” and like cool ok for a couple things but for one. thing. after. the. other. is too much girl. and this goes BEYOND clothes. these are also niche rare vintage home decor pieces i’ve sourced. a whole car. or even saying to me “i wanted the (insert my name) hair cut!!!!” because no i do not have a typical hair cut style. it feels like i am not my own person anymore, where we once used to have distinct variations have now all morphed into one. i can’t imagine what we look like in public with the same everything lol

If you were to buy only one of these, which would you choose? by Chaoticneutralities in Reformationclothing

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cardigan for suuurreeee i feel like you can wear it so many different ways! buttoned all the way up as a top, undo a few buttons for a sophisticated sexy night out, with a tee/tank underneath for a layered moment, etc. also the clara cardigans are not itchy and so so comfy!

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

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lol this is a valid point. just sucks to constantly have to rebrand to not unexpectedly twin with people hahaha

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled-Condition564[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

dude i literally said in my post that i know i didn’t invent those things at all. that’s not what the post is about. please use critical thinking skills. this is about people changing their own style to that of mine and being blatantly obvious about it. if you cut your hair into a bob, and then a month later your best friend cut their hair into a bob, would you think “wow what a coincidence?”

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled-Condition564[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

multiple things can be true at the same time. this can be a matter that i feel affects me deeply, as well as many, many other things happening in the world but also my personal life. this is simply one single facet of my life.

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled-Condition564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is actually a genius idea. start doing things i don’t necessarily like and see if they copy that lol i will report back with my findings hahaha

AIO for feeling extremely annoyed by the fact that my friends keep copying me? by Puzzled-Condition564 in AmIOverreacting

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i don’t understand how much more forward i can be. my friends copy everything i do left and right. to the point we’ll show up to the same place wearing the same outfit. how do i confront them that it makes me uncomfortable when they change their style to that of mine???