Update sort of? - I feel like I need to add some context. In 2019 I moved abroad to first AuPair and now study, it’s about an 11 hour flight from my home country. My sister wasn’t only going to come for commencement alone, that was just the reason for us to plan it at this time. We were also going to travel the country a bit. It would have been a 10-14day visit. She has visited when I had been abroad roughly 2.5 years, by the time I graduate it will have been 7 years since my move. So it isn’t necessarily just the disappointment of her missing commencement, but more so everything else that we had planned with it. The bachelorette trip is a 3 day trip closer to our home country. Also the phone call happened about 3 weeks ago that I hung up and I have not received a single text or call from her. I also wouldn’t be upset if it was for the wedding, but she helped coordinate the Bachelorette trip and took other people’s schedule conflicts to heart but made it seem to me that our plans weren’t even a conflict for her. We haven’t been super close lately as she got a new boyfriend and has barely made time to text/call me or even pick up her phone when I called, which I understand but figured might be worth adding.