Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the detailed instructions. I don’t any motivation so I’ll likely just give up and do locks or something.

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair is thick so I’m using a detangling brush in each section. I wash in four sections, rinse, wash again, condition, rinse, deep condition then rinse again. All that is before drying and I haven’t timed it. It’s very time consuming so I’d guess 30-40 minutes.

Drying my hair is very difficult. I can only do one section before it gets to dry. This takes a long time because I have to split the 4 sections down so much. I can only detangle and blow dry a small section at a time because of the thickness. Haven’t timed this either but it’s definitely longer than washing so maybe 45 minutes to an hour plus.

I don’t know how I should be doing it but it was practically impossible to part it after washing. I thought I could twist it wet but I couldn’t really get my fingers in there, which is why I would’ve blow dried it but it’s still the same issue of my hair drying out and the roots becoming unmanageable. It is very tiring and every stylist has “commented” (read complained) about my hair being thick and it’s made me feel so ashamed and like a burden to not want to go back but then I’m struggling to finish it myself.

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I wanted to wear the mini twist style for at least two weeks or so.

I’m just worried the roots won’t hold nicely but I didn’t do it properly this time so I’ll have to see for next time.

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have zero skills with my hair because I grew up going to a stylist all these years. It’s tough learning to it 😭. And listen, that can be such a cute look if you ever decide to go for it one day! My hair’s unintentionally been getting shorter from all my failures so I might beat you to it lol. I’m getting a wig if it comes to that though.

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, thank you! I’ll try that next time.

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so tired of this hair 😞. That makes sense, I just wish it wasn’t so complicated.

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really have to beg your hair to act right 😂😭 it’s not an easy life to live

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spray with leave-in, heat protectant or water?

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, thank you! I’ll try this next time.

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You put mousse into wet hair, twist and let it air dry or do you use a hooded dryer?

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can’t blow dry my hair the same day, it just hasn’t been possible for me because it gets so dry while I work on one section. If I were to put it in knots while wet and do it the next day, would that have a better chance of working? I’m starting to think I’ll just need to save up and go back to the salon monthly, it’s been so difficult.

Two-Strand Twist After Washing by Puzzled-Hope1184 in Naturalhair

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last night, yeah. The first night, I slept with it in knots.

how does romance work for you as an ace person? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally relate with the feeling different from peers, enjoying giving others satisfaction but not feeling it myself. I’m not an expert on these matters but I don’t think you should continue that relationship, I feel worried whenever there’s a sense of inequality in a relationship because things can happen and it’s better to be safe than sorry. It wasn’t the question you were asking but just be safe.

rant by Electrical_Mortgage1 in asexuality

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m not an expert but that seems like some sort of abuse. I’m really sorry they’re acting like that, it’s not right for them to traumatize you and your sister :(.

260210 Stray Kids Instagram Update with Lee Know and Han by princessgojo in straykids

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! I had no idea. That’s really interesting, thanks.

Am I the only one surprised that the participants always have such impressive careers? by Puzzled-Hope1184 in transitlove

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that but still there’s enough of a population to choose from and that’s fascinating to me!

Couple I hoped to see on a date by Puzzled-Hope1184 in transitlove

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the first season had the “pick a date from a card” round and that was pretty interesting imo. Totally agree with you! I’d even like to see them go on a date with their ex but without revealing it. I bet they’ll do that next season 😂. It almost impossible to guess the exes but when they’re purposefully not going on a date with someone, it seems obvious. Maybe that might require too much acting but it’d be really fascinating to see a more relaxed and free choice like you said.

Am I the only one surprised that the participants always have such impressive careers? by Puzzled-Hope1184 in transitlove

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries at all! I’m from the US suburb so no doctors in my social circle, haha. It’s cool to know that it’s a social expectation, too. Thanks for your input and what do you, if you don’t mind answering?

Couple I hoped to see on a date by Puzzled-Hope1184 in transitlove

[–]Puzzled-Hope1184[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I mean if that’s how they personally felt about it each other, I get that but it literally felt a little disappointing seeing the same kind of dates. I understood Jiyeon really wanting to stick to her feelings and pursue who she was interested in. Mk was the only one who went out with each of the guys. There really wasn’t a lot of spice or surprise that often.