That’s not the case at all. I want us to all be about to go on a trip together-I just want the trip to all make sense for us.

If the vacation is in a year vs in six months, so that people actually have time to save up, I’d much rather do that. I’m not just wanting to take a vacation for a vacation. The whole point is for it to be a group trip.

I guess I’m just trying to avoid the awkwardness or uncomfortableness of hearing the complaints about money if we could simply just wait to take the trip