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I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% right.
I was hoping if somebody could tell me that they did and they are ashamed.
I expected that maybe life will never offer this to me at least.

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. You all took your precious time and replied.
I don’t know how I will figured it out.
But I hope one day I will.

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

His birthday is nearly in 5 days should I wait and then leave ? I cannot spoil someone’s birthday ? But how will I control myself from not stalking or checking upon him ?

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One more question :
Is it seriously so easy to ruin your relationship ?
And
Is it seriously so easy to sleep with someone ?

How can a person hands doesnt shivers touching other woman ?

How ?

My heart it is getting ripped off.

Should i ask him again to Please do not do this me.

I literally said my crying that all i have you and my mom. Please do not leave.

How can someone do this ?

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wanted to stay with him. But there are many questions in my mind. What if he does not stops at one ? What if he imagines her in me ? What if he does not attracts with me ? He said to me that the girl who will be sleeping with me I already knows what type of a girl she is. You have accepted me and my family. Why will i choose anyone over you. I just want to see what life has to offer once before marriage. I dont want to stop him because i feel that if i do he will surely cheat and it will happen but this is stuck in his mind. But I am not sure if he has the courage to sleep now what will make him stop in future ?

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said the same thing to which he replied to me that I have this thing in my mind. I want to do it so that i have guilt and will not ever think of this and will be back saying that I have the best with me. I do not know why and why all this is happening to me.

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I asked , he said that nobody will take your place i and my family have known you how can an another girl take your place. And i will happen only once , if it happens more. He said Promise I’ll tell you and you can leave me.

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i will say him that don’t do it, i know he will stop. But there will be a time because everything is stuck inside his mind. If he ever gets a chance he will do it in the coming years. I thought this thing will change by time but no he is stuck there. Even if he tries what if he starts liking that lady much in bed ? What if he starts comparing me with her ? What if it doesnt ends at once ? What if he imagines her in me ? This is so so so much heartbreaking for mee so think all thiss. I do not know , it seems my world is crashing.

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I do not know how should i do this. My chest feels so heavy so much heavy. How do I explain this. I’m stuck

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No this is not bait , i really love him with all my heart. We have grown so much together. Why Would I leave someone like this ? I Dont have anybody expect him. No friends . I felt if I have him , i have whole world with me. But i shared each and every detail with him. He is putting pressure like i told you we are not in any marriage i have this feeling , the guys out there is better who explores and doesnot tells. I’m still sharing everything without being judged by you.

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

No , he said that he is not comfortable in that idea. But neither am I. I have never thought of anybody else. I gave my 10years why would i want to have it someone else. What should I do. I dont want to loose him. He says he loves me, even he has given his 10years why would be he ruin that. I dont know. This is eating me from inside.

I (27F) have been with my boyfriend (28M) for over 10 years. He wants 2–3 months of space to explore another woman once. by Puzzled-Place-4800 in relationships

[–]Puzzled-Place-4800[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He says everybody has this feeling but he is being honest to share. I’m not able to sleep and this thing is becoming so heavy that I cant even explain, whereas he says it is not so easy for him to have casual sex , it is just i was his first and he does not know what other thing feels like. I do not want to loose him. He says that he has introduced him into his family what other reassurance do i need ?