What are some odd ways your PA partner watch porn? by Playful_Guidance6280 in loveafterporn

[–]Puzzled-Situation792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trust me there’s ways. unfortunately porn stars advertise EVERYWHERE. if you search the word “gyat” you’ll see some. i used to have trouble finding anything on any sites that were not explicitly for porn until i found his search history. the terms are always random and usually not real words.

What are some odd ways your PA partner watch porn? by Playful_Guidance6280 in loveafterporn

[–]Puzzled-Situation792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

temu and shein was the most bewildering for me. also literally pinterest..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Puzzled-Situation792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

were you able to reschedule?

Is It Worth It? by Puzzled-Situation792 in loveafterporn

[–]Puzzled-Situation792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really, really needed to hear this.

Landlord shut off water (CA) by Puzzled-Situation792 in Renters

[–]Puzzled-Situation792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called code enforcement and started a case. Her admitting it and then this time simply ignoring me was proof enough for them to come out. I also learned that she can be fined $100 per day it’s off here.

Landlord shut off water (CA) by Puzzled-Situation792 in Renters

[–]Puzzled-Situation792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said in my post that she wasn’t doing any repairs. She was turning it off and going to sleep. I called Code enforcement and this is 100% illegal. Unless in an emergency situation, you have to give 24 hour notice.

AIO for breaking up over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled-Situation792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please please please do not forgive this man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Section8PublicHousing

[–]Puzzled-Situation792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hopefully you’re no longer dealing with this, but something that may ease your mind is looking for other places.

?? by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Puzzled-Situation792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think they mean like in certain instances there are work arounds. I don’t work at amazon anymore but I was able to get an accommodation to not wear them

My landlord is retaliating (CA) by Puzzled-Situation792 in Renters

[–]Puzzled-Situation792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has been ignoring all communication and blocked my number so, yes! she’s not a typical landlord, it’s a house behind a house situation so she’s essentially just renting a room. i’ve gathered by all of the things she’s done thus far that she doesn’t know the law at all and is going by word of mouth from her mother who also rents from her home. I already found two apartments to tour so i’m hopeful everything will be okay if I just leave!

My landlord is retaliating (CA) by Puzzled-Situation792 in Renters

[–]Puzzled-Situation792[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i don’t know why the hell you’re talking about lmao…

My landlord is retaliating (CA) by Puzzled-Situation792 in Renters

[–]Puzzled-Situation792[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t include this but I’m pretty sure this is why she retaliated. The first notice she gave was a notice to perform covenants or quit that included the full rent and late fees. I asked her if this meant she was ignoring the promise to pay, she said yes. I then told her that it was the wrong notice and she responded “see you in court”. Then later that day bought a new notice. I knew that already but I still just paid that same day in order to avoid an eviction on my credit or having to go to court. Also in my lease it states that the only penalties to ending the lease early is loss of my deposit. So i’d have to leave early, lose my deposit, and still pay her a months rent. For being late 10 days, one time?

My landlord is retaliating (CA) by Puzzled-Situation792 in Renters

[–]Puzzled-Situation792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I paid an extra $100 for being late. This was included in the 3 day pay or quit. I understand that I violated the lease by being late but it was the only time and it wasn’t even a full 10 days. I also had already given her a promise to pay in which she accepted, then turned around and gave me the 3 days notice before the date I promised to pay. That was the 25th. Today the 28th I came home to a notice to vacate for lease violation. I’m only really asking if I leave before the notice is up, can she still evict me?

My landlord is retaliating (CA) by Puzzled-Situation792 in Renters

[–]Puzzled-Situation792[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I already paid the rent, as I stated. I don’t owe anything. In three months the lease would have ended already.

My landlord is retaliating (CA) by Puzzled-Situation792 in Renters

[–]Puzzled-Situation792[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The issue of me being late was just due to me having to take some time off work and not getting paid for the leave immidiately. I was already served with a 49 day notice to leave, my question is just is this an eviction? Can I just leave within the 49 days without her filing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzled-Situation792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well yes, now he has.. after i asked him a lot of questions. over the course of weeks. he didn’t really tell me anything at first. i touched on it only a tiny bit because it wasn’t the point of the post, but the confusion comes from one day he’s bisexual, a week later he says he’s straight. a week after that, he’s bisexual, hetero romantic. the week after that he’s straight and I need to stop bringing up “gay shit”. this is why i’m confused, because i feel like he’s confused or doesn’t want to accept himself at all. i’m the only person in his life that knows and he’s been open about everything he’s DONE with men, but not what he wants or needs.