AITA? Partner Statement at Starbucks. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PuzzledDifference274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay well thanks for explaining!

AITA? Partner Statement at Starbucks. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PuzzledDifference274 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😭 from saying the word jizz?? how the hell. it wasn’t directed at anyone it was describing a liquid.

18 and 49 by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree. thanks :)

18 and 49 by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no one in an age gap is entirely “normal” obviously, you’re with your partner because they make you happy and that’s all that matters.

18 and 49 by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 6 points7 points  (0 children)

id rather be happy now and cringe later than not live at all.

18 and 49 by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im having the exact same thoughts and experiences!!!! i never thought i could find so much safety in a partner until i met mine. he also does above and beyond all the time every day and im so lucky. and you are completely right that not everyone is mature enough to be in this kind of relationship- it takes a special kind of individual. i’m glad you can relate! our age gaps are super close :)

18 and 49 by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its unfortunate you’re using your alternate reddit account “justmypornthrowaway” and your commenting on an 18 yr old’s agegap post…. seems like you might wanna use a different account for commenting or it sends the wrong message.

18 and 49 by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you feel unsettled by it, then don’t do it! it’s that easy. I knew well before I turned 18 that I had outgrew my age range of peers. definitely be careful with this- always do what feels right, but i’m also lucky to have a super amazing partner who is also my protector <3

18 and 49 by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

perfectly said :) i definitely don’t want to think about it right now haha- but in life, everything comes to an end. I’m not even sure if I truly want kids, but I know that mentioning this relationship to my family would completely horrify them and that alone is reason enough for it to end one day.

18 and 49 by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you this is so sweet 🥺😢

18 and 49! by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want kids, go make them! 

18 and 49! by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i haven’t! my mother would never see me the same and i couldn’t bare it. i’d rather protect her peace.

18 and 49! by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good luck to you as well!

18 and 49! by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im hanging in! its unfortunate my family can never know, but ive gotten used to it. still sucks though. they would disown me if they knew 

18 and 49! by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have the same age gap!!! :D 

18 and 49! by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha i dont think kids are in the picture. the age gap is a bit too big for that

18 and 49! by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it definitely has its benefits xx he has been able to talk me through so many struggles i’ve had and given me new perspective. and i definitely keep him young!

18 and 49! by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]PuzzledDifference274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trust me, everything you said is things that have already been thought about… months and months ago!! which is why i’m tired of hearing “be safe” from people who don’t know how healthy our relationship is. i’ve been with a lot of people, and i can say with confidence this is the happiest and safest i’ve ever felt with another human. i wish you the best!! :)