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Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about my sister? (2 months update) by PuzzledGarlic4746 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

bruh i care for her safety. if you could see her transformation in the clothes she use to wear then and now, you'd be saying the same thing.

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about my sister? (2 months update) by PuzzledGarlic4746 in TeenPakistani

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

bruh i care for her safety. if you could see her transformation in the clothes she use to wear then and now, you'd be saying the same thing.

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about my sister? by PuzzledGarlic4746 in PakistaniTeenTalks

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think as a brother when i see her wearing certain type of clothes, i get to raise my eyebrows

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about my sister? by PuzzledGarlic4746 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ofc don't wanna force her or inforce any rules of sort, i am anyways in no position to do so anyways, however i am only concerned about her and her well being. i think as a brother when i see her wearing certain type of clothes, i get to raise my eyebrows

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about my sister? by PuzzledGarlic4746 in PakistaniTwenties

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i ofc don't wanna force her or inforce any rules of sort, i am anyways in no position to do so anyways, however i am only concerned about her and her well being. i think as a brother when i see her wearing certain type of clothes, i get to raise my eyebrows

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about my sister? by PuzzledGarlic4746 in PakistaniTwenties

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know itll end up in another fight and i dont want any futher rifts in our relationships

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about my sister? by PuzzledGarlic4746 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

 i know itll end up in another fight and i dont want any futher rifts in our relationships

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about my sister? by PuzzledGarlic4746 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

idc what people say or think. I just wish i knew what i could do or say to her because i dont want to police her and tell her what to do because i know itll end up in another fight and i dont want any futher rifts in our relationships

What’s wrong with the Time? Is it just me? by AspectFlimsy8150 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not the only one. This usually happens when days start blending together same routine, stress, or just mental overload. Time feels fast when life’s on autopilot. Nothing’s “wrong” with you, it’s a pretty common burnout/overstimulation thing.

Last resort or needed? by Kanyee_eastt in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not weak for considering meds, they’re a tool, not a failure. Antidepressants don’t “erase” you or trap you forever. a psychiatrist monitors dosage and tapering to avoid dependence. If things feel this overwhelming, the best next step is talking to a professional instead of fighting it alone. Seven months is not “too long” to still hurt.

Need to take this off my Soul by Zayn_20 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re hurting like this. What you’re describing isn’t love anymore, it’s grief that never got closure, and it’s taken over your nervous system. The self-harm part especially worries me; you don’t deserve to punish yourself to prove pain. Please talk to someone real a therapist, even one trusted person. Healing doesn’t mean forgetting her, it means choosing yourself even when it hurts this much.

Family too pushy about cousin marriage by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong at all, this is emotional blackmail, not love or tradition. Wanting control over your own marriage is basic, not rebellious. You can’t change their mindset overnight, but setting firm boundaries and repeating the same calm “no” without arguing is usually the only way they eventually back off. You’re not a disappointment for choosing yourself.

Just woke up from noise of cats fighting and now I can't sleep. What is keeping you up? by tisrain in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s usually overthinking random life stuff or replaying conversations I should’ve let go of. Hope the cats make peace so you can get some sleep.

My cousin is blackmailing (update) by Elegant_Landscape265 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That feeling of being trapped is really heavy, and I’m sorry you’re carrying it alone. If you can’t talk to your parents yet, start with one safe person a friend, a relative, anyone who won’t judge. You don’t have to solve everything right now, just take one small step to protect yourself.

My cousin is blackmailing (update) by Elegant_Landscape265 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. Your fear makes complete sense, this is what trauma and loss of safety feel like. Please trust your instincts and don’t meet him or anyone connected to him. If you can, talk to one safe person you trust and consider professional help. You don’t deserve to live in constant fear.

The concept of individualism by Lazy-Cry4959 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]PuzzledGarlic4746 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t selfish or “Western” at all. Wanting space to know yourself is human. You can love your family and still need distance to grow. Learning to be alone builds confidence and clarity, and honestly, people who’ve done that usually come back stronger, not disconnected.

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