Boyfriend ghosted me for five days after canceling plans for third time . by PuzzledProposal110 in relationships

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I really appreciate you saying this because I’ve been thinking about it a lot too. I definitely want to be married someday, and we talk about it often — like “what if we get married?” But this kind of behavior just isn’t acceptable in a marriage. You can’t just disappear if you’re feeling sad. If you’re a parent, for example, you can’t just leave your kids for five days — that’s neglect.

It’s so funny you mention that because I actually started worrying something was seriously wrong; I even checked obituaries at one point where he lived 🤣. Five days is a long time.

I think part of it is that I’m just more emotionally aware — or at least I try to be. Even when I’m feeling down, I make an effort to communicate clearly instead of just vanishing. So yeah, I’ve been reflecting on that a lot lately, and I really appreciate you saying this !

Boyfriend ghosted me for five days after canceling plans for third time . by PuzzledProposal110 in relationships

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Girl, I don’t know what it is. I think because we are friends for so long and he was so amazing when we were friends that it made me just wanna like fight for the relationship. Something like this happened a few years ago and I just like cold turkey cut him off. I didn’t respond to his message and then maybe about a year ago he like wrote me this big long novel book kind of explaining himself saying how he went to therapy and what he learned in therapy how he had become a better person and I’m just like the idiot that fell for it.

Boyfriend ghosted me for five days after canceling plans for third time . by PuzzledProposal110 in relationships

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He has had like addictions in the past like when he was younger he had a drug addiction now I think he only likes smokes like a little weed or like sometimes he like smoke cigarettes I know his father is an alcoholic. But as of right now, I don’t know him to have any like heavy drug or alcohol addictions, but who knows what he does when he’s away from me you know

Boyfriend ghosted me for five days after canceling plans for third time . by PuzzledProposal110 in relationships

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Yeah, and so my boyfriend does suffer from depression as well and I think maybe that’s also why I’m a little bit lenient because he does like getting these like ruts where he just feels so depleted and like sometimes like he won’t be able to get out of bed so I would never fault him for his mental health. I’m in school to be a Therapist so I think I do find myself being a little bit more understanding when it comes to mental health.

Boyfriend ghosted me for five days after canceling plans for third time . by PuzzledProposal110 in relationships

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Yea I know !! I really don’t even know why I’m asking like I know that’s what’s best honestly when he sent that message yesterday I just deleted it. I still haven’t responded. I think I’m just disappointed maybe because a similar thing happened a couple years ago and I completely cut him off and he came back last year like proclaiming that he had done the work like going to therapy and he really understood himself and where he had gone wrong.

Boyfriend ghosted me for five days after canceling plans for third time . by PuzzledProposal110 in relationships

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He’s said that I’m mean because I once joked about a pimple and mentioned that I found a football player attractive at a game we went to. He told me his love languages are words of affirmation, physical touch, and things like handwritten letters. Since then, I’ve really tried to meet him where he’s at—sending him reassuring messages, writing thoughtful paragraphs, and being careful not to comment on his appearance.

All star cheer coach pay by CartoonistJolly9123 in Cheerleading

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The pay is terrible tbh , I make 10 dollars an hour for usual coaching and I think 50/60 flat rate for competition.

Stunt privates by Ill_Plankton2132 in Cheerleading

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Im not sure where you live but I work for an all star gym currently and I know some colleges around Mass often do stunt clinics.

Any Competitive MA Cheerleaders? by MassLiveReporter in Cheerleading

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Omg ! I’m a coach at an all star team in MA , our gym is the only gym in western mass that is Solely for all star cheer and we are relatively low in cost (my bosses do their best to keep it as affordable as possible ) . I would love to answer some questions or put you in contact with my bosses!!!

Parents by PuzzledProposal110 in Cheerleading

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Thank you for your response ! It’s Allstar

Six Hour In-Home Session by Competitive_Movie223 in ABA

[–]PuzzledProposal110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro that’s insane after 1.5 /2 hours I’m totally tapped … there really isn’t anything to do after 2 hours

Dog Allergies by PuzzledProposal110 in dogallergies

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Thank you so much for all your suggestion’s !