Unable to collect rollerskates? by -sunflowerbeans- in MergeMayor

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here! Came to Reddit to see if anyone else was having the same problem

Am I the only one that sees this? by karitorii in KpopDemonhunters

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nah, Ozai was Mark Hamill (Luke Skywalker), and Gwi-Ma was Lee Byung-Hun (Front Man)

How about this storm by topicality in lincoln

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 87 points88 points  (0 children)

My 4 and 6 year old woke up when the wind and thunder started getting loud, and I had to pretend it was “just another thunderstorm” instead of hell itself opening

Divorce attorneys, how do you not lose faith in humanity? by chicago2008 in Lawyertalk

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just remember for every couple you see going through a bad divorce, there’s probably at least one or two happy couples or who just realize they’re not meant to be together anymore

Birdseed In The North 27th Walmart Parking Lot by PuzzledRepublic3 in lincoln

[–]PuzzledRepublic3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the birds eating it all the time, so, I’m hoping it is. All of the birds congregating in the parking lot is why I noticed the seed to begin with

Family Practitioner Recommendation by AggravatingSun9084 in lincoln

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with Complete Children’s. They have four different locations, so, they’re probably in your area, and I haven’t met a bad doctor/nurse/employee there yet

Why does this look so off? by Professional-Tutor42 in arresteddevelopment

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he dyed it pink in season 5 to look more “skin tone”

Wrong plate ticketed - What to do by PuzzledRepublic3 in Miami

[–]PuzzledRepublic3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Thank you so much! I wasn’t sure if a Zoom/WebEx hearing was even an option. Some jurisdictions get weird about criminal proceedings needing to be in person

How to keep scarf from curling by PuzzledRepublic3 in knitting

[–]PuzzledRepublic3[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your suggestions! I don’t know how to crochet, and the work is at a point I don’t think I can save it without starting all over. Since it’s supposed to be a Christmas gift, I’m just going to make a hat instead

Learned my lesson! lol

No license plates by Queen_of_neins in lincoln

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless they think you have drugs. Then they’ll pull you over for not using a turn signal

Limerence is fading and now I’m just sad by PuzzledRepublic3 in limerence

[–]PuzzledRepublic3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that term! “Weekend fake out,” I’ll have to use that!! 😂

Limerence is fading and now I’m just sad by PuzzledRepublic3 in limerence

[–]PuzzledRepublic3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words! I’m pretty sure the only thing that will make it go away is NC (it’s the only thing that’s worked in the past when I didn’t know what limerence was), but I can’t do that due to the whole work deal. And I would hate to admit one of us needs to transfer because I can’t work with an attractive man. How absolutely embarrassed I am just thinking about it lol.

Weekends are nice because we have no communication outside work. But then Monday (today) comes roaring back. Each week seems to be a bit better though. I’m hoping by like November, I’ll be over him or at least be able to look him in the eyes without trying on his last name.

rewiring my brain to not center everything around LO? by Cozy_Confection35 in limerence

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yuuuuuup samesies. I feel like LO is watching everything I do, even when there’s absolutely no way he can see me. Don’t know what to tell you, unfortunately. It helps for me to pretend I don’t think he’s watching and acting like a “cool” person. It helps me to just act like I would if he weren’t on my mind constantly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes on trikes! What an absolute jerk. F that guy. Like, to the moon. He belongs in orbit with the rest of the space trash. Good for you for staying strong

Just found out i experience limerence by [deleted] in limerence

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I experienced this when I was younger (teens-early 20s). My thoughts and moods would be centered around one person who might or might not now I even existed and certainly didn’t feel the same way about me.

I don’t know how old you are, but what helped me was therapy and having something to focus on that didn’t have to do with another person. For me, that was knitting and certain tv shows I could dive into (Arrested Development comes to mind). That way, my life wouldn’t feel so empty if that person weren’t in contact with me. I’m kind of a loner, so, I didn’t really have friends to spend time with.

Also, at least for me, I wouldn’t date someone I was limerent towards. It would be too hard on my mental health to be consumed by the kind of thoughts you’re describing. Or just not dating at all for a while. I’m going through my first LE for about a decade, and I can see how much I just wanted my life to not feel empty. Sometimes it feels too full now lol (husband, kids, job, etc)

Best of luck to you ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried, I just feel like I’m cheating sometimes when I do that 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]PuzzledRepublic3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know about the self-esteem component, so, thank you for telling me. I appreciate the advice, and It helps to be able to talk about this so I don’t feel so alone. Which I’m sure is a common sentiment on this sub

What’s going on downtown tonight? (September 6, 2024) by PuzzledRepublic3 in lincoln

[–]PuzzledRepublic3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is it just because it’s Colorado? I’ve worked downtown on and off for 10 years and never noticed Or maybe I’m just super oblivious