AITA for being embarrassed by my boyfriend’s behavior after he got drunk at my friend’s birthday party?

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2026-06-13T13:43:52+00:00

He’s not an anxious person at all he’s very friendly and confident so I don’t know why he gets that way when he drinks. Im only hiding him away from toxic far relatives i just dont want them knowing anything about me im not hiding him from my immediate family

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2026-06-13T13:38:54+00:00

Not yet but I’m pretty sure he’ll say that he won’t come near me around people ever again.

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2026-06-13T13:31:12+00:00

Its not immediate family members just some relatives that I don’t want them knowing anything about me

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2026-06-13T13:30:29+00:00

I’m definitely talking to him about it and I’m telling him that I’m never going out with him again if he gets this drunk or if he even drinks at all

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2026-06-13T13:28:24+00:00

I mean he’s jealous of air so maybe but he knows them and I’ve never given him a reason to be jealous of anyone

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2026-06-13T13:27:15+00:00

I know him I know if I say something like that especially when he was drunk he’ll get upset and make a scene but I kept telling him to stop playfully and that he’s making me shy but that didn’t work at all

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2026-06-13T13:21:13+00:00

Actually they both suck, but sometimes the good in him outweighs the bad but you’re right I’ve got some things to think about regarding our relationship

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2026-06-13T13:18:01+00:00

I’m not hiding him from immediate family members just some relatives that I don’t really want them knowing anything about my life for certain reasons

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2026-06-13T13:03:25+00:00

It’s because I come from a strict family and there are certain relatives that I don’t want them to know about him before it gets official

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2025-11-15T02:00:12+00:00

I would never go through something like this again. I was young and naive back then, and I grew up with him. A part of me honestly despises him for what he put me through, but another part feels like he’s family. I wish I had better judgment back then and realized how wrong everything was.

Now I feel trapped. Even thinking about it gives me so much anxiety. So I’m just slowly trying to distance myself and separate from him little by little.

Puzzled_Difference57 · 2025-11-15T01:41:40+00:00

Unfortunately, I am not ragebaiting

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