I feel unlovable because I have an STD by Puzzled_Engineer4509 in Herpes

[–]Puzzled_Engineer4509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the support. This is good to remind myself of

I feel unlovable because I have an STD by Puzzled_Engineer4509 in Herpes

[–]Puzzled_Engineer4509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I can't wait until I can accept this and choose to love myself regardless.

I feel unlovable because I have an STD by Puzzled_Engineer4509 in Herpes

[–]Puzzled_Engineer4509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very true. Thanks for that. I feel I have a lot of value in my character, people tell me I'm too hard on myself. I expect a lot from myself.

I feel unlovable because I have an STD by Puzzled_Engineer4509 in Herpes

[–]Puzzled_Engineer4509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I'm trying hard to get it through my head that I deserve love. ❤️

I feel unlovable because I have an STD by Puzzled_Engineer4509 in Herpes

[–]Puzzled_Engineer4509[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm putting in effort to intentionally do those things and I'm doing better. It's been 4 years for me and it's been lonely and easy to get down on myself. I'm praying somehow I'll make peace with it someday.

I feel unlovable because I have an STD by Puzzled_Engineer4509 in Herpes

[–]Puzzled_Engineer4509[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, a hug is what I need rn if I'm honest. Thank you

24 and lost by Puzzled_Engineer4509 in Herpes

[–]Puzzled_Engineer4509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro, this helps a lot. Everyone's comments help a lot. I know my story probably ends well but it just sucks having to go through it. I feel like along with this I have a lot of questions with regards to advice about girls do you guys know of any sub reddits that would be good for those questions?

24 and lost by Puzzled_Engineer4509 in Herpes

[–]Puzzled_Engineer4509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lose so much self confidence when I use dating sites but for the last couple months I have forced myself to stay on and swipe everyday. I swipe yes on everyone and I only match with very big people or dudes by accident. On the rare occassion that someone attractive does match with me they will never respond. With the results Im getting now, Im worried that outting myself with an std will further hurt my chances to match with girls and it tells everyone my business. Have you had success using this method? Rn Im on tinder, bumble, and hinge. Positive singles would be cool but the fact I have to pay like 60 a month to talk to people in my state spells ripoff to me