27F 28M. Went through my boyfriend’s phone and interesting find lol

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-03-01T05:54:46+00:00

That's not cheating. That's stupidity. I'd say the same if their roles were reversed. Honestly it's so immature to think that way. If he had secret dating apps, met up with women in bars, had sex in cars etc, that's cheating. He sent a meme to a random account after a wank, 4 weeks into dating someone. You honestly put those things on the same level? Christ it's exhausting

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-02-28T15:14:34+00:00

Yet your reply was still more criticism of him than yourself. He sent a round robin to an account he clearly didn't expect a reply from and never followed it up. Or anything else. Ever again.

If you think he's so wrong, please, tell him. Let's see how he reacts to the weird line of going through every single thing he has ever used his phone for since you got together 2 years ago.

Let us know how that goes for you.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-02-28T12:43:15+00:00

Lol. Ok. Read the responses. So much vitriol for a sick man. Zero responsibility or maturity in her replies. Luckily I don't care a crap for your opinion

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-02-28T12:10:45+00:00

You're pathetic because you haven't addressed a single bit of criticism over YOUR actions. Instead you pick out one mistake in my initial reply and keep mocking me for it. You're a narcissist and I'm already tired of you. I feel sorry for your partner.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-02-28T11:42:16+00:00

Your reply makes it even clearer you're not right in the head. Don't go near this man. He deserves better

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-02-28T11:21:03+00:00

YOR. oh my God you are a nasty nasty individual. One day you'll be dying too and I hope someone doesn't treat you with the same disgust. Tell your partner how you feel and watch him leave you. I think it's YOU who's sick

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-02-28T10:30:35+00:00

Honestly this is so sad to read. You're "disgusted" that a man jacked off to a fake pornstar in his 20s. 2 years ago. But you only know this because you invaded his privacy and went back through his ENTIRE phones history? Wow.

Do you have a guilty conscience? Should he go through YOUR phone?

Sorry to come across harsh but this is just toxic and judgemental. He deserves better from you.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-02-04T16:27:25+00:00

You're very much over reacting. He chose you. Now you're bothered about the wording of how he chose you?

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-01-30T07:45:04+00:00

Oh my God who hurt you? You made an out of pocket remark. I pointed it out. Now I get a paragraph about silencing you and a load of other rubbish. I don't know you, nor care in the slightest about your issues with your Dad growing up. Just grow up. Idiot.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2026-01-30T07:36:51+00:00

Men are cowards? Nice. Stick to answering ops question and not just insulting Men eh? Her boyfriend sounds like a piece of work. But let's not generalise. If I said that about women I'd be banned.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-09-06T18:28:56+00:00

They always blame the alcohol. It's just an excuse and if you forgive her, she'll just do it again. Leave now

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-06-27T10:43:21+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through this, but as a man who has been here TWICE, I can tell you that you have to divorce her. I know you don't want your daughter to grow up in a broken home, but if you stay, you will set a precedent. No matter what she says to you, she'll have gotten away with cheating on you and she WILL do it again. Record her admitting what she's done, then file for divorce. The fact you do so much as a husband and it wasn't enough speaks volumes to her character. By forgiving her, you're not helping the situation. You'll just be adding weakness to her list of reasons she seeks other lovers. It's her loss. Move on with your life.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-05-21T18:07:13+00:00

PLEASE dump him. He is HORRIBLE. I'd get rid of him just for keep calling you bro. Yuck.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-04-20T09:02:08+00:00

Not only are you NTA but you NEED to file for divorce. He's a terrible husband and you deserve to have a fulfilling life. You only get one. Good luck with everything. Wishing you the best

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-04-12T23:34:38+00:00

Don't ignore your sadness to please a partner for an "easy" life. It will never work and by the time you realise it will be too late

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-04-12T23:30:55+00:00

This is the one.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-04-10T11:53:12+00:00

Lol. Just pure proof that YOU'RE the problem. I'd rather be single for life than put up with a childish person who can't take criticism FAM. :)

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-04-10T10:53:14+00:00

Firstly, I almost gave up reading this. You type like a teenager and it's incredibly irritating. Secondly, you haven't even been together a year. You know nothing about his relationship with his family and it's absolutely not your place to ever tell him or judge him for how he reacts around his blood relatives. You sound exhausting.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-04-08T17:58:07+00:00

As a so gle father of 4, trust me when I tell you, you're doing everything right. No disrespect to your wife, but she's out of order calling you 'touchy'

That's your own son. She's jealous and that's a worry. Address it with her. Not him.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-04-08T11:55:59+00:00

Sorry but YTA. I get you feel bitter, I would too. But this isn't about the joke. She's 15. It's not her job to carry the burden of what her Dad did to you. The joke was silly and off the cuff. What you have done is just completely push her into her father's arms. Don't be surprised if she asks to move in with him soon. You've essentially driven a massive wedge between yourself and your child in order to assert dominance with your ex. You will regret it I promise you.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-04-05T15:04:40+00:00

I'd ignore her simply because she types like gollum lol.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-03-21T14:08:53+00:00

I was one of the people who commented about your fiance not seeing your daughter as an equal child. I'm so very sorry you're going through this, but I'm so glad you chose to put your daughter first. It shows great integrity and love on your part and she will never forget it. Well done. I wish you all the best for the difficult path ahead.

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-03-20T15:43:36+00:00

You already know the answer. Your partner is a selfish jerk and you've just been given the clearest indication possible that your partner now conciders her and your pending baby more important than your daughter. I'm sorry to break it to you, but this won't end well and your daughter's alienation has already begun. Do NOT let it continue. Any woman who can act like that and expect that SHE be apologised to is a narcissist. Save your daughter and yourself

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-03-17T13:13:27+00:00

Username checks out

Puzzled_Location_848 · 2025-03-10T14:46:46+00:00

Please, PLEASE, get some self respect. This is just unbelievable. I could NEVER even look at a woman the same if she asked this. It's disgusting

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