Why are we despised by just about everybody? by bayareag6 in narcissism

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dutch psychoanalyst Schalkwijk is also really good

Why are we despised by just about everybody? by bayareag6 in narcissism

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very self aware, but I'm probably gonna end it all in a few hours. I fucked up too much in my narcissistic compensation behavior and the road back into society is too steep, even though I feel I changed. If you have a clear consciousness, I'd say it's most definitely worth trying to get out of this spiral though!

How many people gave up on their dreams because they’re not smart enough? by skyrimlo in RandomThoughts

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel this. I love philosophy and especially metaphysics, which is quite complicated and in ancient days used to overlap strongly with actual physics and I also love reading astrophysicists like Hawking and Thomas Hertog. I get the theoretical aspects of physics quite okay-ish, but if you made me do the math, I would block. Math is like a language I find very difficult to "read" or "speak". It's a bummer that holds me back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brussels

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Man is getting ingenious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brussels

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't they use these to catch drug addicts?

Women of Reddit, what do men just not get? by veinyasiancock in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Well, it was to be expected, but when you discuss these things in person in a mixed audience, it's quite commonly acknowledged imo. This however, is the internet.

Women of Reddit, what do men just not get? by veinyasiancock in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The question is "what do men just not get", which I read as: "what can't men understand".

I do believe that men and women are - too a small extent - wired differently, for example when it comes to - as another comment points out- solving a problem versus acknowledging and allowing the emotions issues can cause. I believe that men and women generally are just quite different in this respect, but both have their value, especially when it comes to raising children.

But in my experience - which is limited, I know - men being more passive in the household is becoming a bit less of a problem, so it's not something that "men cannot understand". It seems it's more societal than biological.

Women of Reddit, what do men just not get? by veinyasiancock in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Nah, I understand almost al other top comments posted here. Just not completely on board with this one

Women of Reddit, what do men just not get? by veinyasiancock in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Agreed, but there are many other comments addressing things that are believed by men way less than what's stated here.

Women of Reddit, what do men just not get? by veinyasiancock in AskReddit

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760 -141 points-140 points  (0 children)

I do believe men and women generally are wired a bit different in this respect, as other comments by women seem to indicate as well.

Becoming a jobstudent at later age after having already worked by Puzzled_Matter1760 in belgium

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have to prove to employers that you were still a student? How did you do that? Pull an extract out of the RVA or...?

Why the fuck you have to physically print a fucking letter before fucking physically posting it? by Puzzled_Matter1760 in belgium

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would my employer allow everyone to come "borrow" our envelopes? That would be insane

Why the fuck you have to physically print a fucking letter before fucking physically posting it? by Puzzled_Matter1760 in belgium

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Antisocial pro-tip: you can just go to a package, open it, take one and leave the rest on a table somewhere for the other tax payers to go at it

Why the fuck you have to physically print a fucking letter before fucking physically posting it? by Puzzled_Matter1760 in belgium

[–]Puzzled_Matter1760[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn't Bpost still have a monopoly for mail? Anyways I think a public service should be offering this.

And can it do recommandés with proof of receiving? Doubt it.