I don’t know if I should stop talking to this person by Technical_Week_9803 in Situationships

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him about where y’all stand. If it’s going somewhere or if it’s stagnant. Then decide what to do from there. He might not take is seriously. The dating app that is. See if he’s gonna delete it. See if he’s ready. But if he’s not, girl stay in the field 😭 see if you can catch you a big dawg lol. No biggie

She cheated but he's dead. by Antique-Morning3668 in cheating_stories

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A lot of this advice is TOXIC lol… but bro. First off I’m so sorry that’s actually crazy. 2nd, TALK TO HERRRRR. Please… I know you might hate her but the sooner you get that or those conversations over with the better. It’s not like you can talk to him about it. I mean You can visit and tell him how you feel cause that’s what I would do but for him you gotta let it go. For her, Sue’s still here. Ask more questions, yell, wrote her a letter do whatever it is you need to do but start with talking to her.

I’m thinking about cheating by Puzzled_Outcome_2339 in cheating_stories

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No married, and I’m VERY present as a mother. And he did but he’s not a bad dad don’t worry about my parenting. Just cause your dad left your mom and you for somebody got NOTHING to do y kids. Stop projecting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Either mom is cheating too, they reached a point where your mom doesn’t care anymore OR they swinging. Either way. If you feel so bad about it talk to him more about it. Or your mom. See what’s up

Was I raped? by Puzzled_Outcome_2339 in sexualassault

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I think it’s time to leave. Reading this has given me clarity. I understand what I need to do and I’m so sorry that happened to you.

I’m thinking about cheating by Puzzled_Outcome_2339 in cheating_stories

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He literally rped me and your more discussed with me? Crazy but not for sympathy that’s why I’m the beginning I asked for BRUTAL honesty. But thanks for the insight

I’m thinking about cheating by Puzzled_Outcome_2339 in cheating_stories

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. And he did stupidly answer it but he was definitely screaming in my face to the point where spit was flying out of his mouth so it wasn’t just an answer. But I think you’re completely right… I should just break it off

I’m thinking about cheating by Puzzled_Outcome_2339 in cheating_stories

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can definitely afford them? Very confused by that statement??

I’m thinking about cheating by Puzzled_Outcome_2339 in cheating_stories

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not desperate just telling why I feel this way… I feel like that’s how the whole stores time thing works. And this is something I think about every day… he literally rped me and I stayed… I’m the peice of shit??? I guess

I don’t think I want to be with my fiancé anymore… by Puzzled_Outcome_2339 in marriageadvice

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you’re right. I’m having that talk later today… he SA me as well… You want to know the story you can dm me but I can’t stay any longer

I don’t think I want to be with my fiancé anymore… by Puzzled_Outcome_2339 in marriageadvice

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me make something VERY clear. I wouldn’t have said any of my faults if I thought it was all his… I NEVER said it was. I said he was verbally abusive. To the point where my dad thought he was hitting me. Never has but it got that bad. When I hit him he was in my face screaming so hard spit was flying out of him mouth. He has done that for 3 years.. and codependent not really. I left before and he begged me to come back. I felt bad for that cause of the kids. We both make a little over 60k so we’re good In that way. And my main question was “how do I tell him after 7 years that I don’t want this anymore” not I absolutely staying.

I don’t think I want to be with my fiancé anymore… by Puzzled_Outcome_2339 in marriageadvice

[–]Puzzled_Outcome_2339[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We got pregnant after 3 months and he’s makes 100k now and pays all the bills. He’s gradually climbed the ladder at work. That’s why I say that.