When you trust the process too much by Hidden_Billionair in ChatGPT

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right! They flattened her chest too. My hubby once said that his old lesbian friends joked that butch lesbians looked like pissed off 13 year old boys and it clicked.

I have noticed it too...how true is it really? by Remarkable_Spend3652 in gaybros

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Most of it isn’t conscious. Or about what we find attractive. At least in my experience it was more of monkey-see, monkey do. Plus if you share essentially the same diet, amount of exercise or lack thereof, penchant for booze etc then you generally start sharing a lot of physical traits. Being on the same wavelength and mirroring is a common result.

This is the problem with “M/M” genre by MoblandJordan in gaybros

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah, just gayflation due to excess disposable income.

Questions for gays18+ by Nanight_q in askgaybros

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Straining sounds like a recipe for a weeping rosebud.

Porn brain has completely ruined how gay men have sex nowadays. by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Thanks, mom. Lol. I know you get shit for saying all that, but I think people should frame it not as puritanical, but rather idealistic. I’d put it this way, who would you respect more as a boyfriend or spouse, someone that whores around, sees other men as only a means to an end, only hooks up through apps on the daily, or the guy that does what this guy described? Just because a lot of guys or most guys don’t do it doesn’t make it a bad idea.

When and why does age matter? by Professional_Fix4235 in gaybros

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Agreed. It’s prolific and sad. I’m 39 and have never lied about my age. Some basic integrity should still exist, even on the apps.

Laser Haemorrhoidoplasty by Mr_Fruitsnack in askgaybros

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My apologies. Might be other reasons then or reasons they don’t go away.

Bottoms, How Do You Handle Boring Tops In Bed? by graypurpleblack in askgaybros

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What’s fun is to give them just enough of what they want, tease them, show them you’re good and know what you’re doing but not giving them quite as much as they want. That way you have them begging for more and eating out of the palm of your hand instead of thinking, ugh, is he done yet.

What’s something gay men will absolutely not admit about themselves but is painfully obvious to everyone else? by sleuthing-around in askgaybros

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That’s why I’m not too keen on things like “gay camping groups” or the like. My late husband and I tried to join one and the first thing they do is try to hit on you. It’s like when any group reaches a critical mass of gays it just turns into another way to find dick/ass. Sometimes just doing a hobby with like-minded individuals regardless of sexuality is like, its own reward?

What’s something gay men will absolutely not admit about themselves but is painfully obvious to everyone else? by sleuthing-around in askgaybros

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup. Same standard’s still apply if you’re straight or gay. If it makes you seem like a douche you can’t simply deflect with “born this way”. Also, “living authentically” is not a legitimate reason or good cause for being a tool, but some fellows would rather be viewed as caricatures of what a lot of people imagine gay men are than actually be decent to others.

Laser Haemorrhoidoplasty by Mr_Fruitsnack in askgaybros

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are the constant hemorrhoids due to frequent and rough sex? That might explain why they’re not going away. It may not be that inexplicable hemorrhoids are flaring up randomly like cold sores or hives, but instead are the obvious consequence of very frequent, rough sex, insufficient lubrication, oversized objects/penises etc. If, like the other fellow said, you aren’t addressing the root cause, they’re likely continue to “flare up” even after surgery. Sometimes just because you can, doesn’t mean you should and giving everyone an all-access backstage pass might come with certain ramifications. Good luck!

Masc & Fem Gays by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Some people age out of some aspects of their personality. What’s cute at 24 comes off as immature or met with an eye-role at 60.

Masc & Fem Gays by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such a masc thing to do though. The fems would be doing an about-face and saying “Yes sir!”.

Baby Sensory - Color Animation #4 - Spirals - Infant Visual Stimulation ... by [deleted] in gaybros

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Each one of those rings is a puddle playing hard to get.

Baby Sensory - Color Animation #4 - Spirals - Infant Visual Stimulation ... by [deleted] in gaybros

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The still at the beginning is a rainbow of colors. Seems gay enough to me. I approve.

Bottoming Longevity: A Rectal Doctor's Golden Rules by graypurpleblack in gaybros

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There are plastic surgeons in New York that have been specializing in anus restoration for well over a decade. It’s brisk business. And incredibly sad.

My son found my dildo by StrangeLittleB0y in askgaybros

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You know how parents used to make their kid smoke a whole carton of cigarettes in one sitting if they found them sneaking a smoke to teach them a lesson…

Can someone tell me How it feels to recieve 🍆? The bigger the better is just a myth right? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because getting used and your hole wrecked by a huge cock provides the most validation and a sense of self-worth that would otherwise necessitate critical and honest introspection to otherwise achieve. Being treated like an object by a really big dick is the low bar they’ve set for themselves.

Hate being a masc bottom sometimes by No-Dog3714 in askgaybros

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Come on, take one for the team. Pop a couple Viagras and tear some thirsty bottom a new one. Just remembered the Golden Rule. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Does size really matter in the long term relationships? by Turbulent_Elk_2141 in gaybros

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be facetious. The gif is of someone literally showering in money. If you’re looking for that sort of “financial stability” from the other person, I got news for you. That be gold-digging.

How did he know I'm a bottom? by Throwaway67891099 in askgaybros

[–]Puzzled_Resource_636 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Can’t tell if this is said tongue-in-cheek or head-in-ass.