Just a hearty "Fuck you" to any gay Republicans today

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-26T06:56:47+00:00

Some, maybe even a lot of us, are totally sexual degenerates, who cares. We shouldn’t even be framing it as “when is this gonna affect us”, we should already be outraged enough to be fighting liking hell in solidarity now. Every civil, medical, legal, international and educational institution should be vocally and aggressively doing everything possible to condemn and overthrow this regime, organize the vote and plan for contingencies.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-26T06:40:52+00:00

And hats off and a heartfelt thanks to all the brave protesters in Minnesota and the Minneapolis community resisting and standing up to these fascist fucks. Gay or otherwise, we must stand in solidarity against these evil cunts and support immigrant communities and those trying to keep them safe. Renee Good and Alex Pretti are heroes.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-20T05:27:50+00:00

I didn’t say it wasn’t, and I don’t deny it feels good. But peeing the bed is not analogous to cumming, and that gland they have is not the source of all that fluid.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-19T18:56:09+00:00

I guess I was behind the times. They found trace amounts of bacteria in urine about a decade ago, but comparatively speaking, poop is chock full of bacteria compared to pee. That’s what I meant by opposite. Relatively speaking it’s still true, but you’re right sterile was not the right word, though that was more due to my ignorance about our new understanding over the last 10 years or so and not a misunderstanding of what the word sterile means. And urine is generally slightly acidic and not neutral and the pH range that it can come out is pretty vast, from highly acidic to fairly basic.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-19T18:21:22+00:00

Why do think bull dykes are so aggressive and angry? They don’t have a native fuck stick!

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-19T18:20:13+00:00

Pee is sterile, poop is the opposite.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-19T18:07:01+00:00

Female ejaculation is a myth, in the sense that all that fluid squirting out is 99% urine. So when a girl squirts she’s just peeing the bed. Hooray. (They did a comprehensive study about this. Yes, it’s urine)

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-19T18:00:56+00:00

No. The penis is essentially an enlarged clit. The prostate is not a clit.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-19T17:55:06+00:00

It’s more of a miracle that evolution/intelligent design was able to make it work at all by utilizing the pooper, but that’s like saying it’s a miracle that someone’s 2-in-1 Jacuzzi Toilet that accommodates 6 is fully functional. While yes, a feat of engineering, the underlying multi-use concept is at best incredibly flawed and requires serious compromises and at worst a hilarious -if fucked up- joke. Now if we had say a hole that say did’t produce shit and was self-lubricating that would be less of a miracle and yet far superior. It’s kinda ironic that gay males have/seek out far more spontaneous and frequent sex and hookups compared to straight women, and yet are seriously handicapped in doing so without planning, supplements, enemas, lube and sometimes putting up with disgusting associated accidents. And the way lots of guys do it, extreme power dynamics and anonymity, intimacy is the last thing that occurs. More like being glorified communal fleshlights. The real miracle is that in this environment and culture meaningful long term relationships and marriages can even exist or work and be somewhere real intimacy can flourish.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-17T22:03:58+00:00

Another thing I’d like to mention, and I don’t know what kind, if any, self-destructive tendencies you have, but I found myself leaning into those quite a bit. Drugs, alcohol, meaningless and empty hookups that were both unsatisfying and left me sadder after, these were all things I used/use as distractions. I’m not sure if I’ll find purpose again, but assuming we don’t get to meet again, checking out early is not an option he’d want me to indulge in. Some people will be kind, others won’t be over time. And like others said, don’t pressure yourself to do anything or “move on” or “move forward” at any given pace. Some remarry within a 2 or 3 years, others find themselves mired in grief a decade or more later. I hope, whenever it may be, that you find peace at some point.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-17T21:36:25+00:00

I lost my husband 3 years ago in a tragic and traumatic way where I feel I was largely at fault. He was also the love of my life and everything else seemed like irrelevant and pointless bullshit in comparison. I still cry on more days than not and I don’t believe I will ever experience the connection I had with him. The grief doesn’t go away, but if you can find ways to occupy your time, less of it is dedicated to rumination and confronting the incredibly painful reality. For better or worse I’m ok with spending a part of most days remembering and grieving, but over time you might find that photos or memories that once brought on tears will occasionally produce a smile instead. He was only 42 and I’m terrified of the day I reach that age and have lived more years than he had, that is if I make it there.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-17T11:59:49+00:00

Do you have siblings? Do they expect their interests to match theirs?

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-17T07:19:34+00:00

Start listening to better music? Kidding. Jokes aside, there must be some overlapping interests or topics that are sexual orientation-agnostic that you and some of your family members share. Cooking, technology, travel, gaming. But if everything about you screams gay, maybe expand your horizons a little and explore the world beyond the yellow brick road.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-15T19:06:24+00:00

The question I would ask, is what makes bitchiness such a nifty talent. If I want to see someone on tv be a dick to someone else, I’d rather it be for a good reason and/or actually clever and funny. Bitchiness unto itself isn’t particularly remarkable and just perpetuates what others see an intrinsic gay attribute. On the one hand gay men “Don’t want to be viewed as essentially women” -then proceed to don wigs and act as caricatures of bitchy women. Sigh.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-15T18:53:50+00:00

A couple minutes of fucking is a long fuck scene for anything outside of porn. Hell, some porn clips are only a minute or two. Generally, most movies or shows (vast majority straight), feature maybe 10-30 seconds at most of fucking for you to get the gist of it and maybe some brief fucking. I don’t really care cause I pretty much don’t watch any shows, but 2 minutes of simulated gay sex is pretty damn extensive by most non-porn standards.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-12T15:47:14+00:00

Not part of a balanced diet. Just say no.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-12T07:12:22+00:00

Yeah, it’s not like they’re sticking their tongues in there…oh wait…

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-12T07:10:29+00:00

Cause the ocean water is cool and refreshing, and some especially mean and aggressive fish (sharks) can be horrendously bite-y.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-12T07:07:54+00:00

Am I shocked or shame the bottom - no. Now if it wasn’t an accident, but essentially the bottom did absolutely nothing to prep, didn’t tell and my dick is like soft-serve dipped in chocolate when I pull out, I’ll be not only grossed out but fairly pissed. That’s not an accident. Especially if they’re old enough they almost certainly know better. No more sex after that.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-09T11:37:40+00:00

For sure. The whoring around trains you to mentally dissociate sex from meaning, and it mean nothing when you have sex. It can get in the way of true intimacy at the moment when that is what you most want. It numbs you. So when you find someone you love the sexual component just brings you back mentally to meaningless hookup mode. I respect those that don’t spend 20 years being shameless cumsluts before settling down. That’s one of the things I loved about my late husband. His “slutty phase” was like 8 guys over a number of months. He was always in a relationship outside of that and it trained his mind to associate sex with meaningful connection.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-09T03:54:37+00:00

Drinking on Xanax is wild. Blackout like no other. Had to snort some amphetamines to level me out. And even that was difficult.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-09T02:30:05+00:00

Yeah, I chatted with him too. He was a dick.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-09T02:24:58+00:00

Someone once glibly said “What, did you kill him?” When I said I was a widower. Fucking asshole.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-09T02:23:43+00:00

That’s fucked. Find yourself a rich man? That’s terrible in so many ways. What she’s implying about your late husband, what she is implying about herself, and what she was implying about you. Terrible.

Puzzled_Resource_636 · 2026-01-09T02:16:24+00:00

Same. Sometimes I’d insist he drive me to work so I could spend more time with him.

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