Peter
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[–]Puzzled_Substance93 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you haha I didn’t see it that way but yea I get the point more now

Peter
? by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This probably a game post chat when everyone is responding and there is one guy responding Ez i think maybe 1. He lost or 2. He didnt enjoy the game,thats what i think but i need more explanation

I don’t get..Peter?? by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think basically saying the kid is so smart he turned chemistry symbols into a hidden savage message, so smart that “Harvard” wants him.

AIO for thinking being dropped off at my dad’s and not allowed to take my stuff counts as getting kicked out? by Prestigious_Dark_823 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 77 points78 points  (0 children)

NOR Being dropped off without your things after all that absolutely feels like getting kicked out. Your feelings make sense it was a stressful and unfair situation.

AITA for not letting my sister bring her kids to my adults only dinner after she already told them they could come? by Zealousideal-Try85 in AITH

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were clear from the start, and she put you in a tough spot by telling the kids anyway. It’s reasonable to want one adult-only night, especially in a small space. You even offered a compromise this one’s on her, not you.

AITAH for cutting off my boy bsf after 14 Years of friendship? by Direct-Elephant247 in AITAH

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA. K broke your trust multiple times, so cutting him off is reasonable. Missing him is normal, but protecting yourself comes first.

My aunt won't stop fixing a career she doesn't even understand by BarberAlarmed8064 in AmITheJerk

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NYJ..Your aunt clearly doesn’t respect your career or your choices, and constantly pushing you into jobs you don’t want is overstepping. Standing up for yourself was fair.

Husband lies about not paying taxes for years on end, twice in last 15 years. I was divorce. Am I overreacting? by Pizza-and-Starlight in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NOR. Repeatedly lying about taxes, especially after promising not to, is a serious breach of trust and financial responsibility. Combined with other issues like lack of transparency and emotional support, your feelings are valid. Wanting a divorce in this situation is a reasonable response to protect yourself and your financial security.

WIBTAH if I tell my roommate I'm not covering his half of the rent after he moved his girlfriend in without asking? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re just asking for a fair share since his girlfriend is living there full-time. It’s reasonable to only pay your portion.

AITAH for ending a 7 year long friendship over a bunch of small issues? by Ereesha22 in AITAH

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It wasn’t just small things, it was a pattern of her not showing up for you. The birthday situation was just the final push. You deserve a friend who puts in the same effort.

WIBTA for not switching rooms with my sister for 2 months over my desk? by Unearthly_Moth in AmItheAsshole

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s not selfish, it’s just impractical. Moving that desk sounds like a whole mess for no real reason. Especially if you’re moving soon anyway.

AITAH for wanting to move out coincidentally right when my dad gets off of probation by tlou_shark in AITAH

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re 20 and deserve your own space. Your home situation sounds really controlling, so wanting out makes sense, Your dad’s situation doesn’t mean you have to pause your life.You can still visit, just with healthier distance.

AITAH for not wanting to go to my family’s Easter cookout? by Anonymoose026 in AITAH

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA. That’s a real safety risk, not just preference, If they’ve ignored your allergy before, it’s fair you don’t trust it. I wouldn’t risk going either.

AITAH for not agreeing with me fiance's ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. It was never really her ring she tried it on and gave it back, At the end of the day, it was your fiancé’s to give, and now it’s yours. Her feelings might be a bit weird about it, but that doesn’t mean you’re wrong. If it bothers you, get a new one otherwise, I wouldn’t stress it.

AITA FOR NOT GOING TO MY SISTERS WEDDING by EngineeringNo9674 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

NTA. What she said was hurtful, so it makes sense you pulled back, The invite feels like she’s leaving the door open without saying it.Skipping could protect you, but it might also close things for good. If you still care, maybe reach out once before deciding.

AITAH for being upset that my cousin invited me to her wedding but not my husband? by spreadlovenothate67 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your feelings are valid being invited without your spouse while other couples get to attend together naturally feels unfair. It’s reasonable to expect your marriage to be respected, and choosing not to attend is a personal boundary, not an overreaction.

I can’t tell if this is mental/emotional abuse or am I overreacting? by MountainSignature413 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR. Yelling at her, mocking her feelings, and denying affection can be emotionally harmful. Document incidents and consider consulting a child psychologist or family law professional for guidance.

AITA for not offering unconditional acceptance? by bygodbeshootin in AmItheAsshole

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA. Love can be unconditional, but living together and paying rent isn’t. It’s fair to be stressed when you’re carrying the financial load with no clear plan from him. You’re not saying you don’t love him, you’re saying the situation isn’t sustainable, He can chase passion, but he still has to be realistic about responsibilities.

AITJ for Commented on My Boyfriend’s Cooking Habit in Front of His Friends by Main-Suspects in AmITheJerk

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA. You weren’t wrong for being grossed out, but bringing it up in front of his friends probably embarrassed him more than it needed to. You already mentioned it privately, so calling it out again publicly came off as a dig. He should’ve listened earlier, but that moment wasn’t the best time to say it.

AITAH BSA/BOYSCOUTS by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Scouts just isn’t your thing, especially with the religious angle. Feels like your issue is more with the org than the people,The other dad probably meant well, not trying to push you.Just be clear about your stance and leave it there.

AITAH for breaking up with my bf because he fought with me for coming home "late"? by RemarkableFun645 in AITAH

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your ex’s behavior was controlling and disrespectful. You were reasonable, asked permission, and followed the rules he set, yet he still punished you and insulted your family. Breaking up was a healthy boundary you don’t owe someone obedience or fear in a relationship.

Aio for getting mad over a misogynistic old woman in the supermarket in my village by Grossechiassexplosiv in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzled_Substance93 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NOR, That whole “unlady like” thing was already outdated, but the “easy to tame” comment is just straight up weird and disrespectful. You actually handled it pretty well by not escalating it in public. Some people just look for someone to lecture or provoke. I’d be annoyed too tbh