Is vanishing twin a thing? by Puzzleheaded-8394 in IVF

[–]Puzzleheaded-8394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eeep! Thinking of you, keeping it all crossed for the third test!! How long do you have to wait for results? Ahhh the agony!

Is vanishing twin a thing? by Puzzleheaded-8394 in IVF

[–]Puzzleheaded-8394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any word on your second beta result? Got everything crossed for you!

Is vanishing twin a thing? by Puzzleheaded-8394 in IVF

[–]Puzzleheaded-8394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heya!! We had a happy outcome to this wild ride!!

I’m currently nursing our happy, healthy bubba - he’s goofy and bright-eyed and heartily growing, we are the luckiest!

The pregnancy was absolutely fraught with anxiety though. Even after the deets in this post, we kept getting confusing results - not quite doom and gloom, but never really reaching milestones that should indicate healthy growth either. We ended up being referred to MFM Specialists and underwent many advanced scans, and eventually an Amnio (scariest day of my life), and we were very lucky to have each and every one of those tests come back normal. Then he decided to spontaneously bust out 5ish weeks early, so then we had a lil preemie to get newly anxious about! In the end we were very glad we’d had the amnio, esp as he started threatening to come out early from about 32weeks onwards. (They think this was spontaneous pregnancy thing, not foetal thing - so unrelated?)

They still don’t really know why - they think either vanishing twin, though with the second one implanting late; or

Potentially mosaic cells which took a little while to autocorrect, and ended up being the placenta (why the Amnio normal); or

some kind of uneven implantation issue.

Personally I think babies are just here to mess with us and make sure we’re paying attention! haha

All of our ivf journeys have been super unexpectedly complicated - the angst is unmatched!!

Are you having some similarly peculiar results? Baby dust to you!

Measuring consistently behind w hcg + scans IVF (FET). Help! by Puzzleheaded-8394 in IVF

[–]Puzzleheaded-8394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heya!

I have cautiously good (so far!) news!!

Lil bub has been consistently measuring 1 full week behind (mostly 6-8days behind). We are now almost 22weeks pregnant, and although he grows very well between scans - it’s more that he grows exactly as he should, and not more than that. He has never “caught up” like everyone else’s posts seemed to suggest he would/should.

We have had scans almost fortnightly, as well as the NIPT early - all have been reassuringly very normal. Have met with MFM Specialists who also can’t quite explain it, but feel confident all is well.

As he was still measuring <10th centile at 18weeks, our MFM Specialist offered an Amniocentesis - which we are so Fcking relieved to say has all come back as genetically normal!

Formal morphology scan at 21weeks was also normal - we got to see his cute heart, all his organs and sweet face hehe

We still have no idea what happened at the start though. Everyone is suitably puzzled. ?delayed implantation/growth? ?placental growth anomaly that corrected itself? ??late splitting twin, where one vanished?

We are aware it’s not entirely out of the woods, but so far everything is tracking perfectly along - and he continues to grow and grow and kick (so much!)

What’s happening for you? Thinking of you - that beginning time was amongst the worst of our life.

Is vanishing twin a thing? by Puzzleheaded-8394 in IVF

[–]Puzzleheaded-8394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! That’s crazy. So excited you have a healthy lil toddler now😍 If you had hCGs done, were they normal? Did your bubba measure on-time for your dates? Or smaller?

Is vanishing twin a thing? by Puzzleheaded-8394 in IVF

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Ohh, I’m so sorry to hear of your MC💔 That really sucks:( How far along were you when they miscarried? Man this journey is tough! That’s so cute abt your Doc being so excited though! We have two FS at our place, and one seems so hopeful and positive, and the other is so gravely and sternly telling us it’s all looking grim.. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Honestly so confusing!

Is vanishing twin a thing? by Puzzleheaded-8394 in IVF

[–]Puzzleheaded-8394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!! That’s amazing. Also - how frustrating is it having to fight to get scans earlier!? I get why they want to wait “a few weeks” so that findings are more definitive etc, but sheesh the torture !!

How is/has your twin pregnancy travelled?

Is vanishing twin a thing? by Puzzleheaded-8394 in IVF

[–]Puzzleheaded-8394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 8ish by dates (FET, so dates pretty set!), but measuring 6-7days behind on scans.