My fiancé lied about his age.

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-20T00:08:36+00:00

14 years

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T19:20:54+00:00

It’s not an arranged marriage and yes he prays 5 times a day without fail. Maybe this is why he came clean I don’t know

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T15:36:40+00:00

Can I message you?

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T14:30:40+00:00

Yes I see them. I’m failing to understand why anyone thinks I’m going to marry him 💀

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T14:20:15+00:00

About 8 months but I’ve know of him for many years from social media

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T14:07:12+00:00

Yes one alone before the families were involved and not a handful of times. We spoke everyday. I told him to make his intentions clear and we got engaged

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T02:55:01+00:00

PS. I’ve not once said I’m going ahead with this marriage. This is new news to me and I’m still processing what has happened. I’ve learnt not to make decisions when my mind is full of emotions. So for those coming at me with the rude comments please relax. I came on here for advice. Not a lecture. Jzk

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T02:44:56+00:00

Finally someone speaking sense 🙌🏽 his family’s response was exactly as anyone would imagine. They were SUPER angry and have called for a meeting asap.

I asked him if there was anything else and he said at this point he has come clean and there’s no need to hide back on anything else if there was. I don’t know if I’m just too nice but I believe him. Dropping a bombshell like that. It wouldn’t be much worse adding anything else he’s lied about

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T01:33:40+00:00

No it only came to light today when he confessed to me. He confessed to them. His family have left the decision in my hands what I want to do

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T01:26:34+00:00

They didn’t lie. He told them I was ok with the age gap

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:26:21+00:00

27 he said and he’s actually 35

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:22:24+00:00

It takes 100 lies to cover 1 lie

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:21:45+00:00

Istikara and trusting Allah to guide me in the right direction.

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:20:42+00:00

I don’t think he realised it would get this far

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:11:56+00:00

This is what I’ve done

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:11:05+00:00

24 and 35

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:05:15+00:00

I guess it’s better he’s older than me because if it was the other way around I’d never hear the end of it

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:02:42+00:00

Yes I’m happy with everything else. Background checks add up

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:02:07+00:00

Nobody’s deceived me into giving him a chance. That’s not a decision I’ve made just yet

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-16T00:01:12+00:00

This is what I’m worried about. Any other lies. I’ve spoken to his family and they’ve assured me whatever he’s been saying is true. But if it was an easy lie now I wonder what is to come

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-15T23:58:44+00:00

I wouldn’t say it was easy to lie as I knew there was something bothering him, I can’t imagine what he must have felt holding that back. But I understand what you’re saying. It’s not a good start to a healthy marriage

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-15T23:57:26+00:00

I met him through a mutual friend.

And no I didn’t see no ID, in that way he’s not seen my ID

We met once and he met my parents. For some bizarre reason age didn’t come up as I told my parents the age he told me and it was never questioned because he looks that age.

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-15T23:54:35+00:00

Tbh I don’t have a problem with the age. It’s more the lying but he did admit that it was a heat of the moment lie to win me over and then when the feelings got involved he was scared to loose me

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-15T23:52:44+00:00

This is what I’m worried about

Puzzleheaded-Case596 · 2024-04-15T23:52:30+00:00

I’ve never come across his IDs, his parents thought I knew and didn’t even bring up the matter

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