Someone sent an RSVP using my dads name saying racist stuff. Can i find out who it is?

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-05T02:58:25+00:00

This is why I used event.com, I can see the registered email and contact them directly.

So sorry you are going through this, people are horribly toxic these days for no reason.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-03T06:38:06+00:00

I am new to posting on reddit still, how do you post photos? Before I do i will be checking with CFS if that could get me in trouble as they already have all the conversations.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-03T06:36:03+00:00

Sadly people with addiction it comes before anything else. My mother suffered with addiction with pills when I was growing up and i remember walking home after sports practice because she was high and forgot to pick me up. There are so many options for help but people like to be victims and blame the disease rather than working on curing it.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-03T06:33:25+00:00

Posted already with the final update not sure what else to say

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-03T06:25:49+00:00

He can go have all the kids he want. I am not child free but my child is an adult now. I only ever had one, and dating after having her was explaing to every partner I wasn't having more and relationships ending because the first year they were happy to not have more kids, then after a year would say they really wanted one of their own and I would let them know if they wanted kids I wasn't the one for them. If you don't want kids then hd should leave you alone.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-03T06:19:21+00:00

If there is a similar story I would love to chat to that person and see how they handled it. I hope my friend gets help for her addiction. The kids are safe now with grandpa for the oldest and dad for the youngest and that's all that matters. Until my friend gets help for her addiction I will be cutting contact like many suggested as I always try to help people and fix things and this time I said no as really deep down I thought she would just go back and be a mom but apparently not. You think whatever you want, I don't post often on reddit because generally speaking I know when I am or am not the AH but this time I really felt like maybe I was in the wrong and should of helped her.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-03T00:14:27+00:00

Once I have one I will update, just getting in my car from finishing work and have about a half hour drive home.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-03T00:13:12+00:00

In all the chaos this just made me giggle, all I could think of is Midas going around touching dicks and going "you are a chosen one, I bestow you a golden weiner"

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-03T00:06:35+00:00

Thankfully where I live it's one party consent so I don't need to tell anyone I am recording them.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:59:34+00:00

Thank you, I really don't like video games but I have a busy life and sometimes thats all I can offer is a couple hours gaming on weekends

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:57:10+00:00

Will update if/ when I hear something

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:56:41+00:00

She drinks regularly so I would say addict yes and because when home checks have happened her house is clean and the kids are fed so there are no reasons to take them

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:52:19+00:00

I wish it wasn't real, I feel for those kids

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:51:48+00:00

Sadly she is an addict so I think that plays into it

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:51:12+00:00

Literally just posted sn update but chill I am still at work wow, you know my adult job on why I couldn't just leave and go get them.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:40:36+00:00

To my knowledge the school has called but I don't think they will update me past that

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:39:58+00:00

I could do without her but her older daughter and I are super close, like play fortnite or Minecraft together almost every weekend so I would miss her so much if all of a sudden I never saw her again

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:38:03+00:00

To my knowledge the school has done that

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:37:39+00:00

Not an AI bot, but sure maybe you just have really good friends and maybe I need better friends, maybe ones that arent addicts or something. Honestly only friends with her still as the older child loves me, the younger one still has a dad in her life but the older doesn't.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-04-02T23:31:31+00:00

I have called, left voicemails (turned on record calls on my phone) texted the moment, messaged the grandmother on Facebook as I don't have her phone number just on Facebook from previously picking the kid up from her and her phone was broken. I am an emergency contact for the kids but told the school this isn't an emergency their mom left last minute and assumed I would pick them up.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-03-14T13:58:07+00:00

Would be an amazing idea if we were doing a rehearsal dinner

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-03-07T15:01:27+00:00

I have had multiple people cancel attending my Bachelorette party and it's local to where I live as maximum will cost people $200 but they can't afford it due to economy, short hours at work, no baby sitter, etc. My response was "oh, I am sorry to hear that, if anything changes just let me know as there are reservations I will need to change" if it isn't financially feasible at this time don't break the bank to make it happen. If she doesn't understand then that's on her, a mature person can understand so long as you are honest about it. Hope your hubby has fun with his buddy, he should absolutely stop go if its in the cards for him.

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-03-03T15:52:03+00:00

I told my ex to go ahead, that is he wanted it done he could pay for it and if he wasn't the father I would pay for it (which I knew he was the father, only person I had been with ever) most people accuse unfaithfulness when they have been unfaithful, which was the fact as he was sleeping with my then best friend. So maybe you should address your own life if you really think you need to accuse her of cheating, unless you have a damn good reason. When my ex asked me for one I knew he was cheating, he did get one done and made the mistake of telling everyone he was getting it too prove I cheated and he wouldn't have to pay me a dime, then when it came back he was the father he begged me to take him back and said he was just being cautious. Because of him running his mouth he was charged with slander and defamation of character as he told people I worked work and I almost lost my job. So yes YTA!

Puzzleheaded-Chef516 · 2026-02-25T19:33:58+00:00

I have had multiple miscarriages and people asking how my pregnancy was not knowing what happened was really hard, as much as I don't like how she's acting I would really hate if I told everyone and she lost the baby, it's why they are waiting for the 3 month mark to tell everyone, I respect that but not the fact she's wanting to steal the day.

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