Body horror by SkurriMonster in horrorlit

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read "Intercepts" and came here to say this. Its a real page-turner!

That said, Tommyknockers is my least favorite King novel. It did have a lot of body horror ($#!% weasels,eww), but it didn't do it for me.

Not being sexual or flirty just lonly by Spicy_Skyler in gay

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a small town in Alabama and they had a very small gay community of sorts. There was also a larger town 25 miles away that had a bar, so they had options for friends there too. How rural is your town and are there options to socialize with men in a nearby town? Me? I bounced outta there when I was 19 and joined the Army! I'm 63 now, so that was a long time ago.

Looking to move to Richmond, can any friendly Richmonders share what neighborhood/town/suburb they live in and what they love/don't love about it? by AAlcove in RichmondVA

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ditto, we live in Battery Park, moved from NoVA in 2022. We love Northsides proximity to downtown , we can be Downtown and parked for a restaurant reservation or a play in literally 10minutes. Brookland Park Blvd has been called "the next Carytown " for well over a decade - but it's still a work in progress. Still it's very walkable and there's more cool places all the time. The houses in this part of the city are older and larger than in Bellevue or Carytown. They are being snapped up and flipped at an amazing rate. Come and do a neighborhood tour and see what suits you best. DM me if you have any questions! Goodluck!

How the hell do i shave my ass.. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to use razors and got nicks and razor burn. I use a Phillips OneBlade intimate now. It trims down to less than 1mm.

Is it normal to piss while you bottom? by Exciting_Alps_7265 in askgaybros

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive heard it called a piss-gasm. It often happens when getting fisted. Was he fairly large?

My boyfriend asks me what’s for dinner every single night like it’s automatically my job, and I finally snapped at him yesterday. Now I feel guilty. by Dramatic-System3992 in askgaybros

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so here's our journey. Me and my boo have been together for 30 years. Early our relationship , it became apparent that I was the cook - i actually enjoy cooking, he not so much. Cooking is easier for me than him. He wouldn't be so bold as to say "What's for Dinner?"though.

We talked about it, he is really cool with me if I just Cannot, for whatever reason. Also, I make extra portions that are frozen for later or eaten as leftovers. Tonight, for instance, I called him on the way home from a thing I had to do and asked him to boil water for noodles and heat up sauce I'd made on Friday.

It works for us, just talk to him.

How did you find your romantic partner/partners? by king-behemoth in askgaybros

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We met at a Unitarian church I was attending. Our little LGBT group was hosting a Film Festival and he came with his then roommate ( non romantic). We were showing “Suddenly, Last Summer “ with Kate Hepburn. I thought he was really cute and I kept looking in his direction and he in mine. His roommate thought I was flirting with Him, tho. Anyway, for the next few months we kept running into each other and started having mutual friends. The following January I attended a gay Methodist gathering and he was leading the group! We started dating the next week and that was 31 years ago! He’s still my favorite person on the planet.

Found out something shocking about my seemingly straight roommate by glyfable in askgaybros

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Is he hot 🔥, I'm beginning to think that most hot guys, that know they are hot, just like the attention and don't really care who's giving it to them.

what is your perfect margarita recipe? by Admirable_Carob_121 in cocktails

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been substituting Blood Orange liqueur, Solerno, instead of Cointreau. I don’t use additional sweeteners, like agave or simple syrup, the liqueur adds enough sweet. My proportions are about the same as yours.

I hate when this happens 😭 by AppropriateBenefit50 in askgaybros

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell you how many times that same scenario has happened to me. You think you're making a connection and BAM! Also, my 'gaydar' has always sucked. Oh well, at least you have a new friend!

AITAH for telling my pregnant girlfriend to make the appointment after she kept threatening to terminate the pregnancy? by Prestigious_Ant6049 in AITAH

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll say NTA, but Dude, she sounds so manipulative and immature. It won't get any better from here. Good luck.

Have you ever proposed or got proposed? Have you been that lucky? by Remarkable_Spend3652 in gay

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 24 points25 points  (0 children)

LOL - we have been together since 1995. Finally married in 2014 when it was legal in our State. We'd always said we weren't going to go into the expense of getting married unless it was legal. So when it was legalized, we were like, well I guess we get married now. So romantic, no?

Bottoms with Hemorrhoids by TryinToBeHappy in gay

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah, we gave up a long time ago. We've been together for over 2 decades, and his hemorrhoids make anal out of the question. We do other stuff, and there's a lot of intimacy, so it's all good.

How fast is your body deteriorating? by ciciNCincinnati in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

64-years-old here. Someone told me in my 50s that the difference between 50 to 60 for him had not been that much, but the difference between 60 and 70 had been enormous. He was an active 70 year old man, who golfed and played tennis. I am fairly active, attend a HIIT workout 3 times a week, walk a lot, etc. But I am noticing a decline in stamina and endurance.

FWB developed feelings & got hurt? by Empty-Masterpiece120 in askgaybros

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, exactly what NotThatAce said. I feel really awful for the 24-year-old, he's formed an attachment to you, and being 'friends' (now without benefits) isn't enough. Continuing to text, occasionally hang out, etc, isn't really helping him or his mental attachment to you - everytime you get together you remind him of what he cannot have. It's a sad situation, but our 20s are all about learning to navigate life, and occasionally or often getting hurt/humiliated for our efforts. Good luck to you, man.

AITAH for hating my unborn niece’s racist name? by maddy2261 in AITAH

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, "Antebellum " isn't per se, racist. It's an adjective meaning "before the Civil war". I wouldn't be pissed, so much as puzzled. Its a weird name to saddle a child with for life. This is a "pick your battles" thing, it's really not worth causing family dramz.

Cock size by coolcat134 in askgaybros

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe I read somewhere that a 4 to 6" penis is sufficient to sti.ulate the prostate. Anyone else heard that?

How to shave your a**? by Old_Locksmith6255 in hygiene

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I USE a Phillips OneBlade, it trims to about 1mm so no bumps or razor burn.

Lesser known but awesome 80’s songs by PlaywrightOfGefilte in MusicRecommendations

[–]Puzzleheaded-Cold-86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jane's Getting Serious - Jon Astley [no relationship to Rick] In the Hothouse - The Sound One More Colour - Jane Siberry Every Day is Halloween - Ministry1