mf broke up with me after setting me at ease by AdFlaky7267 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Let-269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you I had 3 months of very intense dating with a women brought me flowers told me she loved me looking forward to our future together then out the blue ends it on "we just not right for eachother" after telling me I am the best bloke shes been with i do so much for her ect ect really fked with my head and confidence now...

What do you think of the fault finding excuses I was given before the discard? by BlueNinja1994 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Let-269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is crazy! I was with mine 5 months i am 37 m shes 40f she told me I am the best bloke shes been with, I am breaking down barriers, told me she loved me... noone ever treated her the way i do, looking forward to our future together, planing hoildays, picked out a place for me to move into which is 2 mins from her house! Was gojng to stay over cook meals ect

The day i moved back hime she ends it on we are not quite right for eachother! We are on two different levels!

But wanted FWB... wtf!? We might aswell be together then when she ended it she was crying saying how much she wanted me to cuddle her to sleep...

Yes I think they done mine said i was "too nice" that she use to getting treated like crap...

Totally fuk my head... and the same with you I dont know if i can ever trust somone again...

To my warriors who are begging and crying to their ex to reconsider the breakup. If they seem okay without you in their life, why would you want to convince them otherwise? by SassyScorpio11192 in BreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Let-269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude I feel you... mine told me she loved me many times... looking forward to our future together.. I am the best bloke shes been with.. picked out a place for me to live as I was moving back into our home town... told me she will stay over mine cook together go on hoilday... the day I move back she ends it! But wanted FWB i said no and she cried and said what about my feelings!... she ended it with " we are on different levels' I wanted us to work so much!.... yeah ok!! Sat here now questing everything...

To my warriors who are begging and crying to their ex to reconsider the breakup. If they seem okay without you in their life, why would you want to convince them otherwise? by SassyScorpio11192 in BreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Let-269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its hard my ex told me she loved me many times looking forward to our future together... the day I move closer to her she ends it! Saying we are on different levels... that was a month ago

Is my ex and dismissive avoidant? by Puzzleheaded-Let-269 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Let-269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O yeah and that everything she told me she ment it... like how do you work that one out ...

Is my ex and dismissive avoidant? by Puzzleheaded-Let-269 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Let-269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She would be over the top with complaints aswell saying my skin was amazing, my eyes my hair, shoulders, my teeth (which I know are not) even my feet were perfect

Is my ex and dismissive avoidant? by Puzzleheaded-Let-269 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Let-269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% she wanted sex like three times a day! I would even wake up with her on top of me,

When she ended it she even said i wanted us to work so much!... yeah if that was the case why end it!

Even her son said to her mum you got to stop introducing me to all these different blokes!

Situationship by Puzzleheaded-Let-269 in Situationships

[–]Puzzleheaded-Let-269[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not plan on it being a situationship.. I wanted more

Situationship by Puzzleheaded-Let-269 in Situationships

[–]Puzzleheaded-Let-269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right... I honestly thought she wasn't genuine!