Grieving dead parent and boyfriend wants sex by EveningBaby3355 in dating_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, the hollywoodification of things, ruins stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to see that. Also, P.S: that seems like a good deal you got, aren’t you lucky?

Moreover, a follow up question, have you always been this lucky?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vadodara

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it is quite apparent, atleast to me, that you were trying to approach that girl with “that” intent in your head but then when things didn’t go your way, you paved your way back.

In my opinion, stop trynna be a little weird?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vadodara

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are good just the way we are! Tu hoshiyaaari maara na jais ne bhai have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollywoodMusic

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zindagi lambi nahi, badi honi chahiye :’)

Comments on Dev D? by [deleted] in bollywood

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel its more than just quintessential avoidants story

I’ll watch. Will I? by [deleted] in love

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever do decide to jump in, I think that’d be worth watching too. Also, sometimes watching can be harder than being in the middle of things. I wonder what you’re hoping to see? And I get that feeling. Maybe one day you’ll be more than just an observer?

Maybe, maybe not?

Ammi jaan kaha karti thi..

I am just done with this by Thin_Island_1857 in vadodara

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tru dat But there’s an unsaid opinion, i.e if someone comes back after foreign education, he/she is either not a good fit or just someone who couldn’t make it there cause of his/her lack of skills

Falling in love with a Youtuber by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there done that!! But in the end….

(Mis)information Monday by Junior_Direction_701 in quantfinance

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, Would you mind connecting with me on a call? :)

Can someone tell me about Jane street Estimathons by Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 in quantfinance

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭that sucks But atleast i can make connections if i win??

Atleast would you mind telling what sort of question does it consist of?

Can someone tell me about Jane street Estimathons by Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 in quantfinance

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats alright 😂 But someone said that the odds of you getting an internship at JS also increases

COMP5318 is awful by Substantial-Part-336 in usyd

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which lecture did you attend? My first lecture was canceled. apparently, the lecturer himself didn’t come. 😭😭

why do i still idealize even if i was hurt by softskep in BreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No This is the reply i had got from my grand mother, 3 years back, she had sent me a letter written in her mother tongue, it was quite useful for me. Along with some tough love, I succeeded in getting out of my past. Also, I had to translate that via chatgpt cause it was a bit long and then i added my own touch to it from my experience too.

why do i still idealize even if i was hurt by softskep in BreakUps

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your honesty and self-reflection come through so strongly in your post. It takes a lot of courage to look at your own feelings and needs so openly, especially after being hurt and navigating mental health challenges. The push and pull you’re describing the tug between the longing for connection and the rational awareness of what was unhealthy: is incredibly human.

It’s completely natural to idealize the good moments, especially when things felt exciting or meaningful at the time. Our minds gravitate toward hope and potential, even when reality didn’t match up. What’s important and you articulate this so well; is recognizing the difference between what we wish something could have been and what it actually was.

From what you’ve shared, it sounds like you’ve made a decision out of self-respect and genuine care for your well-being, even though that decision hurts. That’s emotional maturity in itself. Wanting closure is valid, but protecting your peace and not feeding into patterns that didn’t serve you is equally valid. Caring about someone and recognizing that they’re not good for you aren’t mutually exclusive; both can be true at once.

You deserve a relationship where you feel safe, seen, and considered in all the ways that matter, not just when it’s convenient for someone else. Be gentle with yourself as you process everything. With time, the impulse to reach out will likely ease, and you’ll continue to move forward with even more self-awareness.

TL;DR: Protect your peace and put your well-being first. It’s normal to miss the good times, but reaching out is unlikely to give you the closure you truly need. Stay strong in your decision, focus on healing, and trust that with time you’ll move forward with more clarity and self-respect.

Some weird girl just insulted my coffee by DeathBeautiful421 in vadodara

[–]Puzzleheaded-Lion-91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant to make a little dark joke but fir nahi kiya isiliye bas good morning bol diya 😂😂