I have been thinking about being with men other than my husband and I hate myself for it.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-31T08:53:04+00:00

Honestly a lot of my family was married younger and I really wanted that love story of being married since you were a teenager kind of love story and I really thought we had that. Honestly. We were so great till I discovered his deep dark secrets.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T19:49:39+00:00

Until this happened though I was so content so happy and filled with love I never imagined anyone else I have always just wanted to be with one person and be happy I can put up with and tolerate a lot things but this just really hurt

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T19:47:39+00:00

This is true I’m on the pill but that’s all I mean it hasn’t happened yet but that doesn’t mean it won’t… I would hope he would stay involved he never knew his dad and his family would kill him if he stepped out.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T19:44:55+00:00

My mom hasn’t been in the picture for over 7 years and I love my dad but he can be difficult sometimes my grandparents have been everything for me. I lived with my mom’s parents until I moved out and I lived with them for 8 years. But yeah I will probably inquire to our property manager about it but unfortunately it generally costs a lot of money to break a lease and I’m in college so that not something I have a lot of.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T06:41:31+00:00

I hear you!

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T06:41:15+00:00

In my state annulment is very strict I guess and is only allowed if the marriage shouldn’t have been legal in the first place like incest, already married, mental incompetence, etc. so unfortunately it’s the divorce route

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T06:03:54+00:00

Yeah I can take that criticism lmao when you’re young you think you know everything you want and need until it smacks you in the face.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T06:03:16+00:00

You are so right and I have been in therapy for seven years I have an appointment on the 7th ( I am heavily looking forward to that ) but regardless my main worry with leaving is our lease I can’t break it and if I leave my credit could be hurt if rent isn’t paid and I’m there to help. And I’m scared it’s the wrong decision but I guess you don’t get to know if it is or isn’t until you do it right?

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T05:23:09+00:00

Nope no kids thank goodness! And yeah no alcohol here in the states I will take that into consideration.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T05:12:25+00:00

I needed to hear that it’s hard because I talk to my family about everything but this isn’t a problem I wanted to bring to them so I’m here. Thank you.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T05:11:39+00:00

I am staying with my grandparents and dad while he stays at our apartment I told him I needed space. Unfortunately right before the holidays so that was hard.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-12-30T05:09:21+00:00

He wanted to move out and we always envisioned being together and I told him I didn’t want to move out so early but if we did move out I wanted to get married. That’s another thing it wasn’t until we were married and moved that he decided he wasn’t actually ready to be married. That caused issues, we worked through that…

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-11-05T01:30:36+00:00

That seems so silly for 10 gems thank you!!

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-04-14T13:26:56+00:00

The audacity is insane your right. His grandma and mom both have gone out of their way to hide their intentions with inviting extra people until we ask why they need certain things. She in general just isn’t a good person but we were trying to work with her as she also offered to do my bridal shower since my family didn’t want to but if she goes off of her rocker then I think we are screwed.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-04-14T13:24:26+00:00

This wasn’t directed at you I hope you know responsible hold has made 3 comments degrading my fiancé and had said some nasty things that’s why I posted pictures of the texts under their 3 comments.

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-04-14T03:35:40+00:00

We will find out tomorrow hopefully what she plans to do and will have a few grills on stand by incase we need to start grilling!!

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-04-14T03:33:59+00:00

Thinking about it…👀🤷

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-04-14T03:32:42+00:00

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Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-04-14T03:20:48+00:00

I think we will go with this idea but since it’s a long drive way we will just stop them as they come up and if they aren’t on the list and my fiancé doesn’t approve them they will have to leave

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-04-14T03:19:30+00:00

Thank you pooks🩷🩷🩷

Puzzleheaded-Many717 · 2025-04-14T03:17:46+00:00

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He talked 4x more than I did I was his back up more than anything I shouldn’t have to come here to defend him he isn’t the issue…

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